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Related: About this forumI always get the creeps when a man tells a woman to smile
Because it's often after he's done something terrible to her. I bet a lot of people get the same vibe.
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I always get the creeps when a man tells a woman to smile (Original Post)
RandySF
Sep 2016
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DURHAM D
(32,610 posts)1. Women absolutely hate it when men, especially
strangers tell us we need to smile. It is sexism on steroids.
Men who know us don't generally try it - they know better.
Maru Kitteh
(28,341 posts)2. It is almost always a manipulation. An assertion of power.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)3. Don't watch 'Jessica Jones' on Netflix.
Creepy man done well.
Awesome show that demonstrates how rape shatters a person inside and out.
mythology
(9,527 posts)5. I'm a guy who often gets that same admonishment and find it creepy when people say that to me
And every person who's ever given me a variation on the "you need to smile more" speech has gone on to prove themselves to be an asshole.
sheshe2
(83,791 posts)6. Yes smile...
Right before he hauls off and punches her in the face.