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bigdarryl

(13,190 posts)
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 12:32 PM Aug 2013

Booker asked if he's gay and answers what does it matter

I don't even know why he's being asked that question to be honest. Just because he's in his forties and single well I'm older than Booker and I'm also single with no kids and no I'm not gay either. if someone asked me that question I would punch them in the face not that I have any issues with gays I have a brother a niece in the Army and a uncle who's a minister who all are gay http://www.nj.com/politics/index.ssf/2013/08/cory_booker_gay_rumors_addressed.html#incart_most-comments

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Booker asked if he's gay and answers what does it matter (Original Post) bigdarryl Aug 2013 OP
that's a good answer Enrique Aug 2013 #1
They answered the Muslim question implicitly as if being a Muslim is bad. David__77 Aug 2013 #3
That's how I always thought that that issue should have been handled Proud Liberal Dem Aug 2013 #22
I just tell people who ask me cliffordu Aug 2013 #2
Steve Lonegan brought it up... brooklynite Aug 2013 #4
If someone asked you that question and you punched them in the face... former9thward Aug 2013 #5
No I would punch them in the face because I don't put up with BULLSHIT bigdarryl Aug 2013 #16
Its Bullshit to ask someone if they are gay? former9thward Aug 2013 #17
just go away, you wrote what you wrote and meant it CreekDog Aug 2013 #24
Just another way to ask him for his papers. madashelltoo Aug 2013 #6
sorry but that is utter bs dsc Aug 2013 #8
Are you running for office? madashelltoo Aug 2013 #9
Both Brown and Graham were, yes, called gay while running for office dsc Aug 2013 #10
Nice list. And, I still say, madashelltoo Aug 2013 #12
fine whatever dsc Aug 2013 #13
Never said any of that, but as you say, madashelltoo Aug 2013 #14
I like the old standby of "Why do you ask" hamsterjill Aug 2013 #7
There was a thread awhile back about being asked if you have children and why not davidpdx Aug 2013 #29
"Why, do you need a date this weekend?" wyldwolf Aug 2013 #11
who cares if he is gay? mgcgulfcoast Aug 2013 #15
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2013 #18
Yes it matters, and if he was asked he should answer. Truthfully of course. Safetykitten Aug 2013 #19
They should ask if he's a Republican. DFW Aug 2013 #20
Going after somebody over their sexuality is soooooooo last century Proud Liberal Dem Aug 2013 #21
Yes you have an issue with gays, you just wrote what your issue with gays is: CreekDog Aug 2013 #23
I hate to break it to you Wetzelbill Aug 2013 #25
People need to worry about their own life get the red out Aug 2013 #26
Unless he is trashing gay people gopiscrap Aug 2013 #27
He probably is, but why should anyone give a damn. JRLeft Aug 2013 #28
Do you have those types of violent outbursts often? Jamastiene Aug 2013 #30
Years ago some asked Gloria Steinem if she was a lesbian... Evergreen Emerald Aug 2013 #31

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
1. that's a good answer
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 12:39 PM
Aug 2013

i'm not a fan of Booker but that's a good answer and I don't remember hearing anyone at his level answering such a question that way.

Contrast with the people saying Obama is a Muslim. That could have been answered "so what if he is?" I don't remember any Democrats answering that way, if they did, then kudos to them, just like kudos to Booker.

David__77

(23,388 posts)
3. They answered the Muslim question implicitly as if being a Muslim is bad.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 12:50 PM
Aug 2013

I'm not wild about any of the religions of the book personally, but no need to be skittish.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,412 posts)
22. That's how I always thought that that issue should have been handled
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 12:08 PM
Aug 2013

We have freedom of religion in our country. So what if the Obamas ARE Muslim (though the RWNJs attacked him mercilessly for his *radical* Christian pastor of course.....)? The Constitution EXPLICITY FORBIDS any "religious test" for office.

brooklynite

(94,544 posts)
4. Steve Lonegan brought it up...
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 01:55 PM
Aug 2013

...because his only (remote) hope is to tap into the angry Republican vote by portraying Booker as "different".

former9thward

(32,003 posts)
5. If someone asked you that question and you punched them in the face...
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 03:02 PM
Aug 2013

then yes you have deep issues with gays.

former9thward

(32,003 posts)
17. Its Bullshit to ask someone if they are gay?
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 09:58 AM
Aug 2013

Why, because you think it is some terrible insult? You have deep issues with gays. But go ahead and punch away because you will be in jail where people who attack other people should be. (Although anyone on the internet who likes to talk tough is almost always a weakling in real life).

madashelltoo

(1,698 posts)
6. Just another way to ask him for his papers.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 04:57 PM
Aug 2013

Only African Americam politicians are asked for documentation to prove citizenship, sexuality. This is just another example of prejudice. It makes me sick.

dsc

(52,161 posts)
8. sorry but that is utter bs
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 09:06 PM
Aug 2013

Brown of California was rumored to be gay back in the 70's before he publicly dated Linda Rhondstat. Lindsay Graham of SC is continually linked to being gay. As a 40 plus single guy I have been directly asked by students if I was gay. It is just plain bs to say only blacks get asked that.

madashelltoo

(1,698 posts)
9. Are you running for office?
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 09:14 PM
Aug 2013

Were Brown and Graham called these things during their campaign efforts? I know what "they say" about them too, but they did not use their sexuality as an election torpedo. He's not asking Booker about his sexuality for general knowledge or a potential hookup. I call bs on your bs.

dsc

(52,161 posts)
10. Both Brown and Graham were, yes, called gay while running for office
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 09:17 PM
Aug 2013

Another example is Mayor Koch of New York, another is Rick Perry of Texas. Larry Craig was repeatedly called gay, truthfully, it turns out.

dsc

(52,161 posts)
13. fine whatever
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 09:42 PM
Aug 2013

of course only black people have this issue. Never in the history of the universe did people disparage gays until it was time to insult black people, then people started hating gays. BTW here is a link to Koch, who doesn't appear to be black to me, having been called gay, in a political campaign, in 1977. http://gothamist.com/2013/02/01/ed_koch_forgave_mario_and_andrew_fo.php but of course, it is all about insulting black people as no one ever hated gays before now.

madashelltoo

(1,698 posts)
14. Never said any of that, but as you say,
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 10:33 PM
Aug 2013

"Whatever."

Read article. Both Cuomos denied having anything to do with those posters. Just another bottom-feeder spewing malignant shit.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
7. I like the old standby of "Why do you ask"
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 05:16 PM
Aug 2013

I find those four words to be a great comeback to many stupid questions.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
29. There was a thread awhile back about being asked if you have children and why not
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 11:07 PM
Aug 2013

One person replied "I say it's none of their business". That is an equally good answer. I think both questions are offensive.

Response to bigdarryl (Original post)

 

Safetykitten

(5,162 posts)
19. Yes it matters, and if he was asked he should answer. Truthfully of course.
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 10:43 PM
Aug 2013

aaaaaaaaand there's the rub.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,412 posts)
21. Going after somebody over their sexuality is soooooooo last century
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 12:02 PM
Aug 2013

I wonder if Lonegan is aware that there are already several openly gay men and women already serving in Congress and in statehouses all over the country right now? I think that, as of the last election, there is even an open bisexual in Congress and transgender persons are likely not far behind. I would expect that eventually we will have an LGBT POTUS. Lonegan is desperate and behind the times IMHO. *smh*

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
23. Yes you have an issue with gays, you just wrote what your issue with gays is:
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 01:34 PM
Aug 2013
if someone asked me that question I would punch them in the face not that I have any issues with gays


Unrec.

If I could.

Wetzelbill

(27,910 posts)
25. I hate to break it to you
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 01:42 PM
Aug 2013

But if you would punch somebody in the face for asking if you are gay, you definitely have issues with gay people. Without a freaking doubt.

get the red out

(13,466 posts)
26. People need to worry about their own life
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 02:15 PM
Aug 2013

If people spent more time worry about their own private lives instead of other people's they would be better off.

 

JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
28. He probably is, but why should anyone give a damn.
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 05:34 PM
Aug 2013

His Wall ST ties are what he should be judged on. His sexuality has no impact on my life, but voted to help corporations over everyday people does.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
30. Do you have those types of violent outbursts often?
Sat Aug 31, 2013, 05:25 AM
Aug 2013

That seems like an awfully violent reaction to a simple question. Why would you violently attack someone for simply thinking you might be gay? Do you consider it to be an insult or something? If you do, you actually DO have issues with gay people.

Evergreen Emerald

(13,069 posts)
31. Years ago some asked Gloria Steinem if she was a lesbian...
Sat Aug 31, 2013, 09:35 AM
Aug 2013

Her response was hysterical:

"Are you the alternative?"

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