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onehandle

(51,122 posts)
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 08:52 PM Aug 2015

Woman's request in obituary: Don't vote for Hillary Clinton

RUNNEMEDE, N.J. (AP) - A New Jersey woman has used her obituary to make a final request to friends and family: Please don't vote for Hillary Rodham Clinton for president. Elaine Fydrych's husband said Wednesday she was a registered Democrat and not "a political person."

But he said she grew to strongly dislike Clinton after the deadly 2012 attacks in Benghazi and believed Clinton's handling of the matter as secretary of state was "terrible."

A bipartisan report on the Benghazi attack spread blame among the State Department, the military and U.S. intelligence but didn't name Clinton.

Joe Fydrych, of Runnemede, said his 63-year-old wife told him a few weeks before she died Aug. 13 of her plan for her obituary. She told him it was up to him whether to include the line about Clinton, but he said he felt he had to honor his wife's wishes. The last line of her obituary says: "Elaine requests, 'In lieu of flowers, please do not vote for Hillary Clinton.'"

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/20150819_ap_dcbeb02f4b14446690dcc71f09b5ca2d.html

You know damn well this would have ended up here, so I saved you the trouble of clicking on your mouse/keyboard.

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Woman's request in obituary: Don't vote for Hillary Clinton (Original Post) onehandle Aug 2015 OP
... Xipe Totec Aug 2015 #1
I don't think any Bernie supporter would have posted that. or will post it. cali Aug 2015 #2
I think it was a Republican. RandySF Aug 2015 #3
I think the husband was getting revenge on his dead wife. He's probably thrilled that MADem Aug 2015 #9
When they read the will, I'm guessing it will turn out that she left everything to the cat. Ken Burch Aug 2015 #52
Or the Clinton campaign!! That would be a dish served cold! MADem Aug 2015 #53
Sounds right to me. Ken Burch Aug 2015 #51
How did the poster smear Sanders supporters? hrmjustin Aug 2015 #6
claiming it would have been posted here. who do you think she was referring to? cali Aug 2015 #8
It would have been posted here. I am sorry but i don't see it as a smear. hrmjustin Aug 2015 #10
of course you don't. cali Aug 2015 #14
And what does that mean cali? hrmjustin Aug 2015 #18
agree. yes it would have been posted here riversedge Aug 2015 #31
I saw that last night and did 840high Aug 2015 #47
Oh, give over.... sibelian Aug 2015 #17
You have a lovely night. hrmjustin Aug 2015 #20
You too, my dear hrmjustin. sibelian Aug 2015 #24
Lol. I hope shoukd hope not. hrmjustin Aug 2015 #25
2-5 to LEAVE IT cherokeeprogressive Aug 2015 #19
ALERT! ALERT! CALI HAS POSTED SOMETHING! sibelian Aug 2015 #26
lol. man all alert stations! cali Aug 2015 #29
thanks, cp cali Aug 2015 #27
... SidDithers Aug 2015 #32
A similar one had already been posted back in April, so it was just a matter of time.... George II Aug 2015 #58
LOL.... BooScout Aug 2015 #4
She was a zombie. Wilms Aug 2015 #15
let me be blunt dsc Aug 2015 #5
so not only do you put words in others mouths, you condemn people cali Aug 2015 #11
Well, we already HAVE, haven't we? sibelian Aug 2015 #13
Well, there was this one... SidDithers Aug 2015 #34
Sure she wasn't political. HA! Logic tells me anyone who isn't political, and many who are, napi21 Aug 2015 #7
Hey--maybe it was HIM. She's dead and she can't talk back. nt MADem Aug 2015 #16
Good point. n/t cherokeeprogressive Aug 2015 #46
kinda sad 6chars Aug 2015 #12
one of the funniest obits I ever read was from a Cleveland Browns fan. KMOD Aug 2015 #21
First published on Fox.....they thank you for the repost of nonsense and irrelevancy. Fred Sanders Aug 2015 #22
Fred, you're wrong. Check onehandle out. Not a Fox lover and not being anti-Clinton. n/t freshwest Aug 2015 #30
Sorry, hard to seperate the DU'ers who have gone to the dark side from us. Fred Sanders Aug 2015 #37
I know. Thanks! n/t freshwest Aug 2015 #43
Will this foggy nightmare never end? sibelian Aug 2015 #23
Ha... quickesst Aug 2015 #28
A FOX watcher KT2000 Aug 2015 #33
I'm supporting Bernie but I don't think this was in good taste. last1standing Aug 2015 #35
How much you wanna bet Joe Fydrych is not a registered Democrat and IS "a political person." SunSeeker Aug 2015 #36
Oh my gawd. Iliyah Aug 2015 #39
Ok SunSeeker Aug 2015 #45
You bring this here... TDale313 Aug 2015 #38
Oops! An old Bernie supporter already posted it. leftofcool Aug 2015 #40
With comments and a smilie TDale313 Aug 2015 #41
Recycled "news", garbage from April? Par for the Clinton-bashing course! Fred Sanders Aug 2015 #44
That's one conference call that won't take place. George II Aug 2015 #42
ROFL! leftofcool Aug 2015 #49
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Aug 2015 #48
Too bad she's already dead AndreaCG Aug 2015 #50
Proud BENGHAZIIIIIIIan for Bernie checking in frylock Aug 2015 #54
Does it make me a bad person..... virtualobserver Aug 2015 #55
Clearly, people have trust issues with Hillary lol ellisonz Aug 2015 #56
BENGHAZI! lovemydog Aug 2015 #57
 

cali

(114,904 posts)
2. I don't think any Bernie supporter would have posted that. or will post it.
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 08:57 PM
Aug 2015

You? You just couldn't resist the opportunity to smear Bernie supporters by claiming they would have.

And you have the unmitigated gall to run around day in and day out posting how awful bernie's supporters are.

Wow, that's some cognitive dissonance you have going on.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
9. I think the husband was getting revenge on his dead wife. He's probably thrilled that
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:04 PM
Aug 2015

she can't cancel out his wingnutty vote any more. He's probably dancing a jig and thrilled that she can't boss him around, and he's feeling his oats.

And of course, she is dead, and she can't speak up. I think anyone who makes their dead relative an object of divisiveness, no matter what they may or may not have said as they're medicated and dying, is an asshole.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
17. Oh, give over....
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:06 PM
Aug 2015

Every time I think the threshold's been passed, someone thinks of something even stupider...

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
24. You too, my dear hrmjustin.
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:12 PM
Aug 2015

Let's hope no passing Bernie Sanders supporters start accusing Hilary Clinton of being unwholesome because of Benghazi. That would be just awful.
 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
19. 2-5 to LEAVE IT
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:08 PM
Aug 2015

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Direct personal attack on a poster.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Wed Aug 19, 2015, 06:04 PM, and the Jury voted 2-5 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Cali didn't cross any line with this post. Geez, I've had worse things said about me and I didn't get upset about the whole deal. Bluejazz
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: You know damn well this would have ended up here, so I saved you the trouble of clicking on your mouse/keyboard.

Seems a fair retort for GD-P. Leave.
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Normally I think Cali posts are fine, but the post being replied to has no reference to Bernie Sanders at all so this is a blatant attack and should be hidden.
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I think cali is 100% right. The post implies that SOMEONE would have posted it in GD, and that someone would probably have been a Bernie Sanders supporter. Who else are we to think the OP was saying would have posted it?
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Poster is correct and the HRC supporting alert stalker is a disgrace to this site. LEAVE IT.

 

Wilms

(26,795 posts)
15. She was a zombie.
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:05 PM
Aug 2015

Hope they did whatever the current sci-fi protocol calls for to make sure there's no further trouble from her.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
5. let me be blunt
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:00 PM
Aug 2015

it is only a matter of time before we hear the same crap from posters here (minus the obit of course)

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
11. so not only do you put words in others mouths, you condemn people
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:04 PM
Aug 2015

for what they haven't done.

napi21

(45,806 posts)
7. Sure she wasn't political. HA! Logic tells me anyone who isn't political, and many who are,
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:00 PM
Aug 2015

would NEVER even think to put something like that in their obit! I don't believe she was a Dem either. The only thing thst would have convinced her that Hillary mishandled Benghazi was FOX NEWS and the Pubs who just won't accept "no (mishandling) for an answer.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
21. one of the funniest obits I ever read was from a Cleveland Browns fan.
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:08 PM
Aug 2015
A lifelong Cleveland Browns fan and season ticket holder, he also wrote a song each year and sent it to the Cleveland Browns as well as offering other advice on how to run the team. He respectfully requests six Cleveland Browns pall bearers so the Browns can let him down one last time
. - See more at: http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/dispatch/obituary.aspx?n=scott-e-entsminger&pid=165695591#fbLoggedOut

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
22. First published on Fox.....they thank you for the repost of nonsense and irrelevancy.
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:09 PM
Aug 2015

But you have plenty of newly Fox-loving allies at DU, as long as it is negative story on Clinton, there is that!

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
37. Sorry, hard to seperate the DU'ers who have gone to the dark side from us.
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:48 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Wed Aug 19, 2015, 10:40 PM - Edit history (1)

Also I just noticed the whole irrelevant article is from April!

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
23. Will this foggy nightmare never end?
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:11 PM
Aug 2015

Who shall lead us from this seemingly endless labyrinth of despair?

Benghazi, of all things. It was a silly non-story and Bernie Sanders supporters will probably start using it because if they do I'll finally have something concrete I can contradict them on.

quickesst

(6,283 posts)
28. Ha...
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:17 PM
Aug 2015

I would have bet my next paycheck that more than a few er, anti-Hillary folks would have pounced on this like a cat on a mouse if you hadn't beat them to it. Like everything else though, easy enough to claim the moral high ground after the fact.

last1standing

(11,709 posts)
35. I'm supporting Bernie but I don't think this was in good taste.
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:46 PM
Aug 2015

There always seems to be one or two of these during a presidential election and it seems wrong to try to guilt someone out of voting their conscience with a death plea.

I'd much rather see someone vote for Bernie, than vote against Hillary or O'Malley.

SunSeeker

(51,728 posts)
36. How much you wanna bet Joe Fydrych is not a registered Democrat and IS "a political person."
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:48 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Wed Aug 19, 2015, 10:38 PM - Edit history (1)

If I were the wife's family, I'd demand an autopsy.

Iliyah

(25,111 posts)
39. Oh my gawd.
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:58 PM
Aug 2015

I think every presidential election cycle that have at least one Obituary stating "please don't vote for. . ." which are usually Democrats.

TDale313

(7,820 posts)
38. You bring this here...
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 09:51 PM
Aug 2015

To whine how people on DU are picking on Hillary? And how the mean old Bernie supporters would of course seize on this? When no one here brings up the Benghazi crap except to ridicule the republican witch hunt or an occasional troll who soon gets a ban hammer? Are you kidding me?

TDale313

(7,820 posts)
41. With comments and a smilie
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 10:11 PM
Aug 2015

Indicating how nuts this was, but please enjoy the outrage. And yeah, I thought his ban was appropriate.

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
44. Recycled "news", garbage from April? Par for the Clinton-bashing course!
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 10:36 PM
Aug 2015

Famous last words marking the final resting place of a great fool.....used posthumously for insipid gutter-snipping.....maybe it is a good sign knowing the depths being plumbed for.....anything!

Response to onehandle (Original post)

AndreaCG

(2,331 posts)
50. Too bad she's already dead
Thu Aug 20, 2015, 12:51 AM
Aug 2015

Cause I can't get an email address to let her know why I'm ignoring her wishes. Because if she actually was a Democrat and believed the Benghazi nonsense anyway then she truly was a political nitwit who was unaware of the 10+ attacks on embassy/consulates and 40 Americans dead during the GWB years not to mention 9-11.

 

virtualobserver

(8,760 posts)
55. Does it make me a bad person.....
Thu Aug 20, 2015, 01:23 AM
Aug 2015

if when a hateful person who planned to vote against Democrats dies.....

I have a little two second celebration party in my head?

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