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Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 12:25 AM Dec 2015

Hillary marketing herself as the "grandmother of the United States" is weird and creepy.

http://thinkprogress.org/politics/2015/12/22/3734656/clinton-abuela/
“Hillary Clinton’s Campaign Wants You to Know She’s Like Latina Grandmothers Everywhere.” That’s the headline of a post highlighting seven ways in which the grandmother of one — and Democratic presidential candidate — is like an abuela, or Latina grandmother.
The list includes everything from how she advocates for vaccines to how she reads to children. It even includes a take-down of Donald Trump, en Español (er, kinda.)

But some have taken issue with the campaign’s representation of a privileged and powerful white woman as the sort of every(wo)man abuela.



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I'd like to hear what the hell being a grandmother has to do with being a POTUS. Yup, weird. And creepy. Oh and more than a bit sleazy too.

And the REALLY funny thing is that she plays both sides. On the one hand, her spokespeople have COMPLAINED that too much attention is paid to her being a grandmother - but at the same time, they have tried to squeeze every bit of political energy out of it that they can.

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Hillary marketing herself as the "grandmother of the United States" is weird and creepy. (Original Post) Bonobo Dec 2015 OP
Give it a rest angryvet Dec 2015 #1
Me too. It's become boorish. grossproffit Dec 2015 #3
You haven't even been on DU for 6 months. Bonobo Dec 2015 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author one_voice Dec 2015 #14
I've been here 12 years and redstateblues Dec 2015 #17
Welcome to DU, UtahLib Dec 2015 #18
You've been here for a few months. I've been here over 12 years. Bonobo Dec 2015 #4
Well, if you've been here for twelve years... CoffeeCat Dec 2015 #20
i hated this nations grandma shit when barbara bush did it. it isn't improved by hillary roguevalley Dec 2015 #25
Many people are. Don't let the nasty get you down. UtahLib Dec 2015 #13
Desperation must be setting in. Motown_Johnny Dec 2015 #2
I think they're hurling everything at the wall CoffeeCat Dec 2015 #22
She has the best that money can by and they came up with this boneheaded move. Luminous Animal Dec 2015 #6
No me Chingles, abuela. nt Xipe Totec Dec 2015 #7
The abuela campaign was a terrible misfire. joshcryer Dec 2015 #8
That, Josh, is what MAKES it creepy. nt Bonobo Dec 2015 #12
I reread your post and it seems to be focusing on the "grandma" aspect. joshcryer Dec 2015 #23
Actually, no. If she understood how respected "grandmas" were, she wouldn't have Bonobo Dec 2015 #29
I've not been impressed by any of her social media stuff. joshcryer Dec 2015 #30
I believe it reflects her personality. Bonobo Dec 2015 #31
Well yes, that's her greatest weakness. joshcryer Dec 2015 #32
I'm not sure I'd call it weird and creepy so much as pandering. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2015 #9
I got a kick out of the term "Hispandering". Too funny. nt cherokeeprogressive Dec 2015 #15
You're right "very fucking condescending" is more accurate. nt Bonobo Dec 2015 #16
She needs to fire the focus group who came up with this Hispandering nonsense. Attorney in Texas Dec 2015 #10
The actual fuck??! Chan790 Dec 2015 #11
Well, I guess she is aiming to be the first Abuelita president artislife Dec 2015 #19
#notmyObaasan yuiyoshida Dec 2015 #21
Since America is a fascist state PowerToThePeople Dec 2015 #24
Very negative comments from Hispanics on FB. 840high Dec 2015 #26
What's the big deal? AZ Progressive Dec 2015 #27
My abuela had to send my father to live with his aunt and uncle so he did not grow up learning liberal_at_heart Dec 2015 #28
You're taking some flak but as mentioned, you touched on something for sure. First, all dinkytron Dec 2015 #33
The "flak" comes in precisely inverse proportion with the accuracy of the OP. IOW, truth hurts. nt Bonobo Dec 2015 #34
True that. dinkytron Dec 2015 #35
all I can think of is Tuko's maniacal devotion to his abuelita in episode 2 of Better Call Saul zazen Dec 2015 #36
Yeah... That was good stuff. But what I think of when Hillary pulls this insincere shit is... Bonobo Dec 2015 #37
UGH: at the top of the abuela post, the infant is being used like an ad headline zazen Dec 2015 #38
Creepy? NCTraveler Dec 2015 #39
So Clinton is the first trans-ethnic candidate? demwing Dec 2015 #40
I WILL BE OUTRAGED BY EVERYTHING Blue_Adept Dec 2015 #41

Response to Bonobo (Reply #5)

redstateblues

(10,565 posts)
17. I've been here 12 years and
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 01:14 AM
Dec 2015

I think your response to her being a grandmother is weird and creepy. I'm a grand parent and I happen to think it's a big plus.

UtahLib

(3,179 posts)
18. Welcome to DU,
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 01:25 AM
Dec 2015

where you have the right to express your opinion no matter how long you've been here.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
4. You've been here for a few months. I've been here over 12 years.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 12:30 AM
Dec 2015

I think your "I'm sick of the sniping" is rather meaningless in that context.

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
20. Well, if you've been here for twelve years...
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 01:33 AM
Dec 2015

...then you understand that when Clinton supporters criticize and mock Bernie or his supporters--it's just pithy prose.

When we have anything negative to say about Clinton--we're being very, very, very bad and we must be admonished!

It's a bit loony tunes.

And that "Hillary is like your abuela" schtick is absolutely hilarious. If you want to see how hilarious--tune into SNL this weekend or peek in on all of the late-night shows. I am sure the Hillary/abuela jokes will be coming down like rain in Seattle.

She did this to herself. This is...comedy gold.



UtahLib

(3,179 posts)
13. Many people are. Don't let the nasty get you down.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 12:40 AM
Dec 2015

Some people seem to have no other means of communicating.

 

Motown_Johnny

(22,308 posts)
2. Desperation must be setting in.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 12:27 AM
Dec 2015

I guess sliding poll numbers in Iowa and New Hampshire combined with Bernie's fundraising numbers are scaring her.


CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
22. I think they're hurling everything at the wall
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 01:36 AM
Dec 2015

and hoping that something sticks.

Unfortunately, they hurled a Hispanic grandmother this time.


Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
6. She has the best that money can by and they came up with this boneheaded move.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 12:31 AM
Dec 2015

#notmyabuela is exploding on twitter.

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
8. The abuela campaign was a terrible misfire.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 12:33 AM
Dec 2015

Whoever thought it up needs to reevaluate. If Clinton spoke Spanish maybe she could pull it off more sincerely.

But it is not creepy, imo. Latino culture places a lot of emphasis on grandmothers and they were obviously trying to tap in to that.

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
23. I reread your post and it seems to be focusing on the "grandma" aspect.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 01:37 AM
Dec 2015

Having familiarity with Latino culture it wasn't a bad idea.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
29. Actually, no. If she understood how respected "grandmas" were, she wouldn't have
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 03:33 AM
Dec 2015

disrespected them. Among Latinos and Hispanics, family and grandmas are gold, bad fucking idea to try to do what she did.

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
30. I've not been impressed by any of her social media stuff.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 03:35 AM
Dec 2015

So it doesn't surprise me they failed again.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
31. I believe it reflects her personality.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 03:40 AM
Dec 2015

I don't want to say she is tone deaf, but she is certainly tone challenged. This is reflected in the choices she made.

As above, so below.

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
32. Well yes, that's her greatest weakness.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 03:43 AM
Dec 2015

We saw that in spades in 2008. Odds are she signed off on this with great enthusiasm.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,740 posts)
9. I'm not sure I'd call it weird and creepy so much as pandering.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 12:35 AM
Dec 2015

I don't care if somebody is a parent or a grandparent. Reproduction is a basic biological function that is performed by all living creatures in some fashion and does not do anything to qualify any human organism for high public office. I'm looking for a smart, competent administrator whose political positions sync with mine; if that person coincidentally happens to be a grandparent, that's nice but irrelevant. I don't know why Clinton's campaign advisers thought Latino voters in particular would be impressed with the abuela bit - seems to me they were not only pandering but condescending, suggesting this nice old grandmother would be a comforting image, standing in the kitchen wearing her apron and making tamales or something, surrounded by smiling children. Kinda tone-deaf, IMO.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
11. The actual fuck??!
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 12:37 AM
Dec 2015

I got an alert earlier this week for calling Hillary a grandmother on the grounds that it was ageist and sexist.

I want but do not expect an apology from the Hillary fan that has been alert-stalking me for it since.

 

artislife

(9,497 posts)
19. Well, I guess she is aiming to be the first Abuelita president
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 01:29 AM
Dec 2015

You know, Bill was the first Black president, so I guess that will make Chelsea the First bi-racial daughter.


*I am Latina, I am trying to have a light moment while h is trying to co-opt my grandmother's experience.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
28. My abuela had to send my father to live with his aunt and uncle so he did not grow up learning
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 02:28 AM
Dec 2015

about his Hispanic heritage. And because my father grew up away from his mother and did not know the culture, I was not raised with the culture. But my abuela is 100% Mexican American, and Hillary is in no way my abuela. She should apologize for co-opting the Hispanic culture in order to get Hispanic votes.

dinkytron

(568 posts)
33. You're taking some flak but as mentioned, you touched on something for sure. First, all
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 04:01 AM
Dec 2015

the blowhards who are pouncing on you for attacking grandmotherness-- that's not the point. The point really is... what does her shapeshifting really reveal? BTW, now it all makes sense why she wore thst old lady dress at the debates.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
34. The "flak" comes in precisely inverse proportion with the accuracy of the OP. IOW, truth hurts. nt
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 04:09 AM
Dec 2015

zazen

(2,978 posts)
38. UGH: at the top of the abuela post, the infant is being used like an ad headline
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 09:12 AM
Dec 2015

I was so curious about this I actually went to Hillary's web site for the first time. This is beyond tone deaf.

Jesus, her branding/ad people are awful, beginning with the awful subconsciously swastika logo (rule #1: in the post-WWII era you don't brand a politician with a symbol that forms any part of a circle using jagged edges). They really are doing her a disservice.

Re this post, of course you see candidate's families on their campaign materials, but not a posed close-up supposedly spontaneous photo with an infant.

By placing this photo, and only this photo, at the top of the abuela post, the infant (her granddaughter) is in effect the ad headline, which of course subconsciously negates the ensuing abuela theme of self-sacrifice, since it looks like a child is being used for her caregivers' advancement rather than the other way around.

UGH!!

It’s no secret that Hillary is loving her role as grandma. And she was thrilled to learn that next summer, her granddaughter Charlotte will have a sibling to play with.

She’s always happy to talk about her “beautiful, perfect” granddaughter, she’s an eager volunteer for babysitting duty, and whenever she travels around the country, she makes sure to bring back a gift for Charlotte—sound familiar?

Here are seven more ways Hillary is just like your grandmother.
 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
39. Creepy?
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 09:16 AM
Dec 2015

Considering what is not discussed about Sanders here you might want to leave creepy out of it.

The fact you don't see this for what it is really says something. Creepy. Only in the Goodman/Paul worldview.

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