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redqueen

(115,103 posts)
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 04:02 PM Apr 2013

Rape Culture Claims Another Victim: Teen Ends Life After Photo Of Her Alleged Gang Rape Goes Viral

Seventeen months ago a Canadian teen was allegedly gang-raped by four of her peers and the photo evidence of the rape spread across her community. But unlike the situation that unfolded in Steubenville, where the victim was at least given the comfort of knowing her assailants received some measure of punishment (even if the media took their side), this case ended in tragedy: The victim was taken off life support by her family on Sunday, three days after attempting to end her own life.

Seventeen-year-old Rehtaeh Parsons’ suicide was the harrowing end to a story involving not only sexual assault, but also the issues of harassment and victim-blaming that are problematic symptoms of rape culture. According to her mother Leah Parsons’ post on her Facebook, Rehtaeh was subject to significant bullying from her peers, who labeled her as a “slut”:

“The (p)erson Rehtaeh once was all changed one dreaded night in November 2011. She went with a friend to another’s home. In that home she was raped by four young boys…one of those boys took a photo of her being raped and decided it would be fun to distribute the photo to everyone in Rehtaeh’s school and community where it quickly went viral. Because the boys already had a “slut” story, the victim of the rape Rehtaeh was considered a SLUT.”


Parsons didn’t know about the assault until days after it happened, when Rehteah broke down in the kitchen crying. At that point, it was too late for a rape kit —which may have contributed to the fact that the Royal Canadian Mounted Police (RCMP) dropped their investigation after a year without charges.

http://thinkprogress.org/health/2013/04/09/1840501/rehtaeh-parsons-rape-culture/


More here, including a petition demanding an inquiry into how this case was handled.
http://bellejarblog.wordpress.com/2013/04/09/rehtaeh-parsons/

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Rape Culture Claims Another Victim: Teen Ends Life After Photo Of Her Alleged Gang Rape Goes Viral (Original Post) redqueen Apr 2013 OP
shame on everyone that blames the girl for a picture, not the man to put it on reddit for ridicule. seabeyond Apr 2013 #1
And these ideas are hardly challenged. redqueen Apr 2013 #4
Despicable. riqster Apr 2013 #2
So sad I hope the case is reopened and the bastard who did this are made to pay Arcanetrance Apr 2013 #3
Another life lost to cruelty, ignorance and hate. BlueJazz Apr 2013 #5
Horrible haikugal Apr 2013 #6
So heartbreaking. TDale313 Apr 2013 #7
I just can't believe it shenmue Apr 2013 #8
Horrible. I hope there is justice for her. nt raccoon Apr 2013 #9
I am so grateful that when my daughter was attacked there was no 'social media'. My heart breaks Mnemosyne Apr 2013 #10
What are these monsters teaching their sons? Ilsa Apr 2013 #11
a little cross posting. when having a womans mag say, son, she is a whore. rape away? seabeyond Apr 2013 #12
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
1. shame on everyone that blames the girl for a picture, not the man to put it on reddit for ridicule.
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 04:09 PM
Apr 2013

that sees a film of rape on FB and without any evidence tells us it is simulated. that spread a lie that false accusations are as high as 45-75%. that puts up decades old studies saying no really means yes.

another of our girls dead. because after all, boys are merely being boys and cant really tell rape. but, how dare us educate them on what rape is.

i am so sad.

the internet is a bunch of bottomfeeders preying of our girls, violence to get off on.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
4. And these ideas are hardly challenged.
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 04:14 PM
Apr 2013

It makes me wonder, as the blogger asked, where are the adults?

Mnemosyne

(21,363 posts)
10. I am so grateful that when my daughter was attacked there was no 'social media'. My heart breaks
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 04:59 PM
Apr 2013

for this young lady's family.

Rest in Peace, Rehteah.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
11. What are these monsters teaching their sons?
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 05:08 PM
Apr 2013

"Any vagina is fair game." ???

I'd like all girls to be given sex education on what to do after a sexual assault. I want to see those bastards prosecuted and thrown in jail, their college careers ruined, for as long as her life would have been ruined.

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