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Related: About this forumWhat have toys got to do with violence against women?

Liz Ely explains why, at Zero Tolerance, they see challenging gender stereotypes in early childhood as a crucial part of their work preventing violence against women.
At Zero Tolerance our mission is to prevent violence against women before it occurs, which can only be achieved by eliminating its root cause, gender inequality. This is not an easy task when gender inequality is present in so many aspects of our lives and in wider society.
The stereotypes present in toys, childrens media and clothes tell boys they must be tough, that expression of emotion is a weakness; they tell girls that they matter less, their stories are less important and that their appearance is their main asset. These stereotypes foster a culture where violence against women is allowed to flourish.
This is why we developed Just Like A Child: Challenging Gender Stereotyping in the early years, a guide for childcare professionals to support them in challenging these stereotypes and providing an environment where girls and boys arent forced into categories which lead to inequality.
Gender training start them young
Gender stereotypes affect and surround us all, so it is easy to be unaware of how we are treating children differently. It may feel like the most natural thing in the world to compliment a girl on how cute she looks in a new dress, but it is important to recognise what messages we are giving out about the importance of her physical appearance. Do we also tell her that we value what she thinks and does, as well as how she looks?
At Zero Tolerance our mission is to prevent violence against women before it occurs, which can only be achieved by eliminating its root cause, gender inequality. This is not an easy task when gender inequality is present in so many aspects of our lives and in wider society.
The stereotypes present in toys, childrens media and clothes tell boys they must be tough, that expression of emotion is a weakness; they tell girls that they matter less, their stories are less important and that their appearance is their main asset. These stereotypes foster a culture where violence against women is allowed to flourish.
This is why we developed Just Like A Child: Challenging Gender Stereotyping in the early years, a guide for childcare professionals to support them in challenging these stereotypes and providing an environment where girls and boys arent forced into categories which lead to inequality.
Gender training start them young
Gender stereotypes affect and surround us all, so it is easy to be unaware of how we are treating children differently. It may feel like the most natural thing in the world to compliment a girl on how cute she looks in a new dress, but it is important to recognise what messages we are giving out about the importance of her physical appearance. Do we also tell her that we value what she thinks and does, as well as how she looks?
http://www.lettoysbetoys.org.uk/toys-gender-stereotypes-and-violence-against-women/
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What have toys got to do with violence against women? (Original Post)
ismnotwasm
Aug 2013
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Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)1. As to the box contents, What's wrong with ANYone having:
"Tough/Athletic/Strength/Courage...Protector" characteristics?
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)2. Nothing- it's just they are EXPECTED from Men and DISCOURAGED in Women
In our culture. Men get resentful or feel like failures. Women suppress their "less attractive" strengths because they are told- and studies bear out- most men find strong and competitive women fairly undesirable. A weaker woman will make guys feel powerful, the role they've been taught to expect.
It's not easy rejecting the roles society puts out there for us.