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boston bean

(36,221 posts)
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 09:37 AM Dec 2013

How a DU meme begins, and how shameful it really is

In the mens group there is posting that is continually kicked up to just prove how HoF is a bunch of right wing lunatics when it comes to the issue of porn. This was posted in the mens group back on July 19th, 2012.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1114&pid=2414

"Seen On DU": Ed Meese Approves of this thread!



http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1255&pid=7852

Maybe someone can take up a collection to buy him a six pack of Sam Adams.


The link in that posting takes you to this post in HoF:

The pornification of America [View all]

Actors having real sex in art-house movies. Erstwhile child star Lindsay Lohan appearing barely clad on the cover of her new album. Teenage girls strolling down Main Street USA attired in ''Porn Star" T-shirts. A bikini-wearing Jessica Simpson bumping and grinding in the music video for ''These Boots Are Made for Walkin.' " College-age women flashing for the ''Girls Gone Wild" video series with nonchalant exhibitionism. Not too long ago, pornography was a furtive profession, its products created and consumed in the shadows. But it has steadily elbowed its way into the limelight, with an impact that can be measured not just by the Internet-fed ubiquity of pornography itself but by the way aspects of the porn sensibility now inform movies, music videos, fashion, magazines, and celebrity culture.

*

What is new and troubling, critics suggest, is that the porn aesthetic has become so pervasive that it now serves as a kind of sensory wallpaper, something that many people don't even notice anymore. The free-speech-versus-censorship debates that invariably surround actual pornography do not burn as hot when the underlying principles of porn are filtered more subtly into the mainstream. And those principles, critics say, often involve reducing women to subjugated sex objects while presenting men in dominant roles. Braving the inevitable accusations of prudery -- which they reject -- critics such as Paul are sounding the alarm. They say the current hypersexualized climate distorts the attitudes of young people toward sex and relationships. In particular, they contend it has a damaging effect on the self-image of young women and girls, who are confronted with a culture that objectifies them while disguising it as female empowerment.

*

But the Internet is far from the only venue that does a thriving risque business. From the newsstands peek not just the usual randy suspects (Playboy, Hustler) but also general-interest ''lad mags" such as Maxim, whose covers feature actresses and models in soft-core poses, surrounded by leering headline copy. Even august Harvard University and its neighbor across the Charles River, Boston University, have recently become home to student-run sex magazines. Video games such as Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas were found to contain sexually explicit scenes, and an audience-building buzz surrounded nonporn movies such as ''The Brown Bunny" and ''9 Songs" when it was learned that their actors had real, not simulated, on-screen sex. Howard Stern brought his own obsession with porn to a daily radio audience of millions, and HBO's ''Sex and the City" accustomed TV viewers to racy sexual adventures.

*

She speculates that the current climate is partly ''a backlash to feminism, a way of protecting male egos, and men insisting on retaining a power structure sexually if they can't retain it in areas of employment and parenting and so forth. It's a way to hang on to a male-dominated paradigm." But Eller says there is plenty of blame to go around. She and Pamela Paul point also to a schism in the women's movement several decades ago. Some feminists campaigned against pornography, but others viewed that as tantamount to censorship, or did not want to be perceived as anti-men. It divided the women's movement, they say, at a moment when it could have decisively changed the national dialogue on pornography.

http://www.boston.com/yourlife/articles/2006/01/24/the_pornification_of_america/?page=full


There is a posting in that thread by a very obvious troll, who was hostile to HoF:


44. I agree with this thread.



-Edwin Meese


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Well, I guess you can get the drift.... how disingenuous can it get.... How in the world can a post by "previously banned disruptor", who if you read the link to HoF posted in the mens group, is hostile to this group and was being insulting to us here, be used as proof of just how batshit looney, right wing, prudish this group is. Well I figured it was time to set the record straight and let one and all know just how untruthful that posting in the mens group really is. Since, it was just kicked up again, for the umpteenth time and has stood unchallenged for over a year.

edited a few times for some misspellings.. and once for clarity.
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How a DU meme begins, and how shameful it really is (Original Post) boston bean Dec 2013 OP
is that what it was all about? i went into the thread to see why it was kicked. but... seabeyond Dec 2013 #1
I haven't looked at any recent porn threads BainsBane Dec 2013 #6
i think that is so incredibly dishonest i never would have thought they would stoop so low. seabeyond Dec 2013 #7
I'm not surprised BainsBane Dec 2013 #9
the problem with warrens theory is the strong majority in u.s. are christian. for his pet porn, seabeyond Dec 2013 #10
There is mercuryblues Dec 2013 #22
i am tired of the dishonesty. continually saying over and over we are something we are not, until seabeyond Dec 2013 #23
I look at it this way mercuryblues Dec 2013 #25
you are correct. the problem is it feeds an illusion not true. i really abhor dishonesty. seabeyond Dec 2013 #28
I'd say that is a perfect contrast. xulamaude Dec 2013 #27
i keep going back and forth to look if there is some other link. i cannot believe they would be seabeyond Dec 2013 #2
Well I'm shocked. Shocked I tell ya. Not! Little Star Dec 2013 #3
There is nothing liberal or progressive about relegating women to second class citizenship BainsBane Dec 2013 #4
A discussion about the harms of porn for many women turns into boston bean Dec 2013 #5
Oh, and what a surprise to see who kicked it back up. UtahLib Dec 2013 #8
OK here is what's going on: MadrasT Dec 2013 #11
I'd say you hit that nail right on the head. xulamaude Dec 2013 #12
I believe if society did not have such rigid, binary ideas about gender and gender roles, MadrasT Dec 2013 #14
Thanks for your response :) xulamaude Dec 2013 #15
Like my Transgender friend who is also a decorated Vietnam vet ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #16
There is also bi-gendered eridani Dec 2013 #18
I have also heard that described as "gender fluid", and know several folks who identify that way. MadrasT Dec 2013 #19
i read this late last night. i am not devious. not who i am. i do not, cannot think seabeyond Dec 2013 #24
What I find strange ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #13
I don't suppose anyone would point out the obvious contradiction BainsBane Dec 2013 #17
You that "cover your boobs" post ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #20
Of course not. It's about controlling women BainsBane Dec 2013 #21
And their favorite "rule 34" gollygee Dec 2013 #26
new meme of the day. so sad, wrong, disheartening our men on du were attacked. seabeyond Dec 2013 #29
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
1. is that what it was all about? i went into the thread to see why it was kicked. but...
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 10:01 AM
Dec 2013

the accusations are so ridiculous, i simply never read their whine, or shit. are you fuckin serious. that troll put that up, so they say because of the fuckin troll that was immediately called out, we bring meese into hof? fuckin stupid and pathetic and dishonest.

is that really what their thread is? i just looked. seemed like first post to that poster i called her out. or him.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
6. I haven't looked at any recent porn threads
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 10:25 AM
Dec 2013

my comments below were entirely general. I've had my fill of that subject on this site.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
7. i think that is so incredibly dishonest i never would have thought they would stoop so low.
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 10:28 AM
Dec 2013

really, this one kinda floors me.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
9. I'm not surprised
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 10:33 AM
Dec 2013

I've seen the same argument without the picture of Ed Meese.

BTW, the Christian right opposes slavery and human trafficking too. Does that mean they support it?

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
10. the problem with warrens theory is the strong majority in u.s. are christian. for his pet porn,
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 10:37 AM
Dec 2013

the only discussion he seems to have interest in, degrading women in one way or another, if anything brought forward has anything to do with christian faith, he makes it unusable. i left that on the side of the road long ago. we have articles on all kinds of subjects from people who are christian. he does not dig into their history to see if they have proclaimed a christian faith, ergo making that info invalid. obama is christian. ALL he says should be dismissed, per warrens theory.

it is an absolute ridiculous position to hold and have the expectation that all of us will blindly and willingly follow his mandate that no christian have a voice.

mercuryblues

(14,532 posts)
22. There is
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 11:37 AM
Dec 2013

nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing they do or say the surprises me. I remember a certain thread a while back was beyond reprehensible. With that group snickering and cheering it on.

Wrapping themselves in the flag of martyrdom is getting a bit old and worn, though. It seems as if some people go out of their way to find it offensive, when people are challenged on their offensive behavior. Because being called a creep is obviously worse than the sexual advances *some* grown men make on pre and young teens.

I especially love when they throw up their hands and can't figure out why women are not receptive and smile to the constant sexual innuendo, advances and groping about their bodies beginning at very young ages. An age where they, as boys were still playing with matchbox cars and JI Joes, just discovering girls are not icky, their female counterparts were learning how to fend off random guys putting hands down their pants. Learning *some* men were icky How is that for a contrast?

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
23. i am tired of the dishonesty. continually saying over and over we are something we are not, until
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 11:39 AM
Dec 2013

you have people actually buy it. looking at a conversation right in front of them, and shifting the blame to the person being civil in disagreement.

mercuryblues

(14,532 posts)
25. I look at it this way
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 12:51 PM
Dec 2013

When a person knows they do not have a valid point of view, they need to lie about what the discussion is about. They can not have an honest discussion because they might have to do some soul searching. It is the equivalent tactic the RW'ers use to justify their bigotry.

Take a look at the DD flare up. It is a perfect example. The RW screamed 1st amendment and religious intolerance. In actuality the remarks he made were so hypocritical it was astounding. They were hurtful to teens who are struggling to be accepted or in the least not be tormented to the point where they consider suicide. It was if you don't believe in my brand of Jesus and God, you are [fill in the blank]. Then the racism was incredibly astounding. He may have worked in the fields with AA, but he never considered that 1/the AA were most likely paid 1/10 for the same work and 2/ if they had so much as a small complaint or looked at a white person the wrong way, they could very well end up dead. But they had to of been happier?

It is the same exact distraction.

I read an article written by a con man recently. He pretty much stated that men are easier to con. Due to their ego and patriarchy. They believe that they have to provide for the family. If they don't they are a failure. There should be enough money for retirement or in case of their death. So they fall for the get rich quick schemes. The guy preyed on that type of thinking.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
28. you are correct. the problem is it feeds an illusion not true. i really abhor dishonesty.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 01:24 PM
Dec 2013

and you last paragraph is true. further. they are greater risk takers in the market, leaving the women to be more effective in the trade. which i found interesting. and i have seen the result of that in my personal life

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
2. i keep going back and forth to look if there is some other link. i cannot believe they would be
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 10:06 AM
Dec 2013

that dishonest. is it really just the troll putting up the picture, that warren keeps using that picture against this group, in that thread of theirs? it is beyond dishonest and i am not really able to grasp they would do this. here i am, silly me, i know. thinking more of them that this shit. nothing else?

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
4. There is nothing liberal or progressive about relegating women to second class citizenship
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 10:19 AM
Dec 2013

deprived of protection afforded to other workers and basic human rights. It is nothing more than an effort to justify their determination that women not be treated as equal human beings with the same rights afforded to workers in porn as in any other industry. It is nothing but an excuse to justify what is obviously a backlash designed to keep women in their place. Arguments for equality are now described as "hatred," and posts alerted on as such. These are people relics of the mid-20th century, some of whom oppose EEOC laws, who oppose non-discriminatory health insurance pricing, and who oppose most prosecutions for sexual assault. It is a clear and transparent effort to deprive women of equal citizenship.

Now, one can have a honest debate about porn, about whether its production and influences are benign or negative. They, however, refuse to engage in such a debate. They instead resort to intellectually lazy tactics like you describe above. They don't read the arguments the other side presents and refuse to think about anything but they want.

Those who resort to such tactics, who endorse porn, while opposing equal protection for women in work and healthcare and resent efforts to draw attention to violence against women, have a strong voice on the internet, but in real life they have far less power. Time is marching on, and no matter how much, they scream, stomp their feet, or pout, they cannot change that fact. All they can do is continue to make their lives miserable by nurturing their persecution complexes as they proclaim modern women and feminists in particular as the source of their oppression. In the words of the great William Shakespeare's Macbeth, it is
"a poor player
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
told by idiot, full of sound and fury,
signifying nothing." Macbeth (Act 5, Scene 5, lines 24-28)

I should point out my comments are entirely general. I haven't actually read any porn threads on DU in the last week or so.

boston bean

(36,221 posts)
5. A discussion about the harms of porn for many women turns into
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 10:23 AM
Dec 2013

a disgusting display of attacking the women who are speaking about the issue.

I have mixed feelings about much of it. But I will be damned if I won't speak out about the issues or defend those who certainly have a right to do so.

UtahLib

(3,179 posts)
8. Oh, and what a surprise to see who kicked it back up.
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 10:32 AM
Dec 2013

Nothing like blatantly baring your agenda for everyone to see.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
11. OK here is what's going on:
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 12:35 PM
Dec 2013

1) They can't get us PPRd (i.e., shut us up) for being feminists.

2) They need to try to find some other angle that will get us PPRd (i.e., shut us up)

3) They have been planting seeds all over DU for a while trying to build cases that we are:

a) really conservative right wing zealots, e.g., the Meese thread, (because that could get us PPRd), or

b) really transphobic, e.g., their interest in the fringe radfems who are transphobic, because if they can somehow make a case that "radfem" always equals "transphobic", we could get PPRd for that, as some of us do identify as radical feminists.


 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
12. I'd say you hit that nail right on the head.
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 12:48 PM
Dec 2013

And I've been meaning to say this for a while: that some radical feminists are trans-critical in the sense that they feel that the medical industrial complex and a society that still has a long way to go as far as acceptance of gender variance is driving a lot of people to surgically and hormonally alter an otherwise 'healthy' body.

Being critical of a cultural/medical phenomenon is not anywhere near the same thing as being fearful of transsexual/gender people either individually or as a class.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
14. I believe if society did not have such rigid, binary ideas about gender and gender roles,
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 01:24 PM
Dec 2013

then the transgender community would look very different.

I also support the right of every person on earth to express gender any way they see fit.

Since I am nongendered, I can't imagine what it is like to identify so strongly as a gender that doesn't match my body, so I don't feel like it is my place to criticize.

I have no idea what it is like to "feel like" a specific gender. Incomprehensible to me.

I love the transgender folks I know because they turn society's idea about "gender" inside out and basically say "fuck your gender rules, just no." I am sure I could meet trans people I don't like but I still respect their right to be exactly who they are.

Personally not real comfortable with even trans "criticism" that isn't coming from the trans community.

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
15. Thanks for your response :)
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 01:30 PM
Dec 2013

I didn't mean to 'dump' that on you - it just seemed like the time to say it, so thanks again.

Personally not real comfortable with even trans "criticism" that isn't coming from the trans community.


I hear you.


ismnotwasm

(41,989 posts)
16. Like my Transgender friend who is also a decorated Vietnam vet
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 01:34 PM
Dec 2013

She's awesome. And when men say women didn't fight in combat-- I wonder how many actually did? Who self identified as female? Just in wrong gendered body.

eridani

(51,907 posts)
18. There is also bi-gendered
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 01:55 AM
Dec 2013

--where sometimes you feel like expressing your gender as male, and sometimes as female I read about it in Transgender Warriors, and was a bit embarassed at not having thought of the option. You'd think that a bisexual would be the first to think of the possibility.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
19. I have also heard that described as "gender fluid", and know several folks who identify that way.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:39 AM
Dec 2013

There are so many variations of gender, it is a rich array of expression and identity that goes so far beyond just "male" or "female".

I understand there are cultures that recognize (and sometimes celebrate) "third gendered" as another variation. I want to learn more about that. If I knew more, maybe that is what I would call myself... for now I am just going with "none of the above". I have a couple of great books that should help with that, I just haven't had time to really dig into them yet. Sometimes I burn out on thinking about gender because it is SO confusing to me.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
24. i read this late last night. i am not devious. not who i am. i do not, cannot think
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 11:42 AM
Dec 2013

in that manner. i would never see something like that, but all the tells are there to sugget this is what is happening. i saw a good year ago, this is the effort with transphobia. and though i say i cannot see it, i guess i did with rw agenda. seeing that anything christian, is called out. when the majority of the u.s. is christian. ya.

ismnotwasm

(41,989 posts)
13. What I find strange
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 12:55 PM
Dec 2013

Is the knee jerk defense of pornography and by extension the multi-billion dollar pornography industry--usually under the banner of free speech-- but there is no other industry that gets this kind of pass from liberals.

I've had very interesting discussions (not here) about the erotic and pornography.

So is that the kind of shit they do over there? Trash it stays.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
17. I don't suppose anyone would point out the obvious contradiction
Mon Dec 23, 2013, 03:59 PM
Dec 2013

in claiming we are uptight RWers for critiquing porn while they insist women should cover themselves up if they don't want to be harassed? One even posted a picture of a burka and said we should wear that.

ismnotwasm

(41,989 posts)
20. You that "cover your boobs" post
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:05 AM
Dec 2013

Was ironically hilarious.

Burkas don't stop street harassment, sexual assault, actual groping in the case of segregated bused in Pakistan--it's just bullshit

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
21. Of course not. It's about controlling women
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:24 AM
Dec 2013

Demanding they stay in the house and wear burkas, just as harassment seeks to control public space.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
26. And their favorite "rule 34"
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 12:59 PM
Dec 2013

There are people somewhere who get off on burkas anyway. No way of dressing turns off everyone.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
29. new meme of the day. so sad, wrong, disheartening our men on du were attacked.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 03:56 PM
Dec 2013

what?

who had the Op started attacking our group and me specifically. who had a thread full of ugly insults?

our men?

who have had days of our group and personal attacks and insult

yes. it is so sad that our men have been attacked.

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