Womensend!

[ismnotwasm]

The writer finds a website where women exchange notes about food, fashion, hobbies and life

As a girl, Aparna had not heard about feminism. But, she would blow her top every time her uncle told her that a woman could not argue against a man for he had certain liberties that she did not. “Doesn’t that mean the woman needs more powers?” Aparna would question.

The thought stuck with her as she went to college, studied journalism and later entered the world of business, working as marketing professional for corporate groups. She also worked as a communication consultant in small firms. While gender was rarely a barrier for her to get a job, she did observe how deep rooted prejudices existed in subtle forms. “I came across bosses who believed that women deserved wages lower than men,” says Aparna Vedapuri Singh. After she worked for others for a while, Aparna decided to be her own boss. A passion for words and the desire to capture the life of the urban Indian woman motivated her to launch an online magazine, Women’s Web, in June 2010.

The magazine is a mix of stories about women entrepreneurs and activists. There are book reviews and home décor suggestions that are shared widely on social networking sites. There are also articles about women’s rights and sexual harassment at work space. “If you go to an office full of women, the first thing they do is warn you against the ‘office lech’. There are so many women who are still not aware of the legal framework that protects us from sexual harassment at workspace,” says Aparna. Tips for mothers, travelogues and women’s health issues are popular with the readers of this website. In the Book Review section, Aparna says works that have reinterpreted female characters from Indian epics such as Draupadi and Sita have often turned viral.

Eve-teasing related articles are also well received, says Aparna. “We published the story of the Thasni Banu case in Kerala. Thasni was harassed by the local men for walking on the streets with a male friend, late at night. These are day to day problems, which many of us face in this country. Sharing these stories will help us realise we are not alone.”

http://www.thehindu.com/features/metroplus/society/womensend/article5706158.ece

I will be visiting that website post-haste

[redqueen]

1. Love it!

It is so beautiful, these ripples of awareness and passion spreading outward in so many places around the world.

[ismnotwasm]

2. That's how I feel

So many clue less people- they're already left in the debris of history

That doesn't mean any particular moment of victory had arrived--- there's an horrendous amount of work to do. But so much hope for those I'd us paying attention

[redqueen]

3. "they're already left in the debris of history"

Yet still looking down their noses and making pronouncements about feminism because they ... don't have a fucking clue. If they did... if only they did.

[ismnotwasm]

4. People don't understand reluctance our reluctance to "explain" either

I'm convinced that the reason so many threads on gender turn into train wrecks is a simple lack of, And resistance to, accurate knowledge. The kind with facts, not mere opinion. In some cases, I'd have to go into so much background it would be like teaching an informative-- but boring class to high school students.

Completely ignoring thousands and thousand of years of human development and jump right to Bonobos-- and consider themselves educated and just done.

Oy

It's mainstream now-- my husband is watching a show on toxic masculinity on some morning show, how we have to teach our boys to be more aware of what is heathy and what is destructive.

It's not like it's hard to understand.

[redqueen]

5. Exactly, it isn't new or hard to understand.

And further, imo this is shit that we should intuitively get, as progressives.

It comes down to basic fairness, empathy, understanding, etc.

[sufrommich]

6. Me too. Great find. nt