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How Porn Fuels Human Trafficking (Original Post) redqueen May 2014 OP
Why are you posting a video from an anti-choice anti-feminist in a feminist space? LeftyMom May 2014 #1
Because he's talking about porn. redqueen May 2014 #2
He doesn't think women control their own damn bodies. LeftyMom May 2014 #3
SIGH redqueen May 2014 #4
Seeing who the fuck is talking isn't digging around and discrediting. Google takes seconds. LeftyMom May 2014 #5
What's a habit is this kind of 'let's not talk about the issue let's dig around to try to discredit redqueen May 2014 #6
You edited and put up a different video. LeftyMom May 2014 #7
LMFAO - first you're pissed that he was posted here... now you're posting it yourself. redqueen May 2014 #8
I'm well aware of what fundamentalists want for women and I want no part of it. LeftyMom May 2014 #9
This thread is about women BEING RAPED IN THE MAKING OF PORNOGRAPHY redqueen May 2014 #10
Sure. Go get a credible souce and we can discuss it. LeftyMom May 2014 #11
Like there's a shortage. Like it hasn't been posted before. redqueen May 2014 #12
... redqueen May 2014 #13
Maybe we can't trust these women because they were personally harmed by porn redqueen May 2014 #14
trigger warning of course redqueen May 2014 #16
... redqueen May 2014 #18
... redqueen May 2014 #19
I'd love to talk about women as workers, and how to better meet their needs. LeftyMom May 2014 #20
I let these women speak for themselves. redqueen May 2014 #22
But you're not listening to the women who have positive experiences, LeftyMom May 2014 #23
Are you talking about positive experiences from being trafficked? ismnotwasm May 2014 #25
Here ismnotwasm May 2014 #15
I dare not quote any of Shelley Lubben's resources. redqueen May 2014 #17
Fundies have latched onto "anti-trafficking" efforts as their new way to save people from sex. LeftyMom May 2014 #21
It's a money thing-- they do that with AIDs in Africa too. ismnotwasm May 2014 #24
Wait - is this guy actually trying to get men to stop jacking off? Flatulo May 2014 #26
Why is it gollygee May 2014 #29
Does porn have any other uses? Flatulo May 2014 #30
As you say gollygee May 2014 #31
I've never considered rough or forced porn to be Flatulo May 2014 #32
As an aside, I see that in GD, there are 3 threads on porn on the front page. KitSileya May 2014 #27
Porn can fuel human trafficking intaglio May 2014 #28

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
1. Why are you posting a video from an anti-choice anti-feminist in a feminist space?
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:29 PM
May 2014

I just googled the guy and literally the first link that comes up if you google his name is his blog on lifesitenews.

http://www.lifesitenews.com/author/jvanmaren/

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
2. Because he's talking about porn.
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:33 PM
May 2014

I disagree with his pro-life stance. Thankfully that is not the topic he's discussing.

He's not some key figure in the pro-life movement.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
3. He doesn't think women control their own damn bodies.
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:35 PM
May 2014

Why would anybody give a shit about anything else he has to say about sex or gender? He's spectacularly wrong on the most basic possible point.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
4. SIGH
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:36 PM
May 2014

Fine. I'll take it down.

It'd sure be nice if people who get outraged that anyone would dare criticize the abuse of women for sexual thrills would comment on the fucking topic instead of digging around to try to discredit the goddamn messenger

But you know... priorities and all.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
5. Seeing who the fuck is talking isn't digging around and discrediting. Google takes seconds.
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:39 PM
May 2014

Checking sources instead of posting crap from odious people just because you happen to agree with it is how to avoid this problem. Since it seems to be a recurring one in this discussion it really ought to be a habit by now.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
6. What's a habit is this kind of 'let's not talk about the issue let's dig around to try to discredit
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:41 PM
May 2014

sources' shit.

It's gone.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
7. You edited and put up a different video.
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:51 PM
May 2014

This is the one you had:



This is who appears in it and what his agenda is: http://www.lifesitenews.com/author/jvanmaren/P15

edit: The new guy is still an anti-choice fundamentalist! WTF https://twitter.com/MrDanielGilman

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
8. LMFAO - first you're pissed that he was posted here... now you're posting it yourself.
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:54 PM
May 2014


Thanks for making your priorities and your agenda so obvious. You have NO CONCERN AT ALL about the violence these women deal with.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
9. I'm well aware of what fundamentalists want for women and I want no part of it.
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:56 PM
May 2014

If you think they're feminist allies just because they're anti-porn you could not be more wrong. They want every man to own a lady of his very own.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
10. This thread is about women BEING RAPED IN THE MAKING OF PORNOGRAPHY
Sun May 18, 2014, 08:58 PM
May 2014

do you have ANYTHING AT ALL to say about that?


LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
11. Sure. Go get a credible souce and we can discuss it.
Sun May 18, 2014, 09:00 PM
May 2014

If one of those idiots said it was going to be 75 and sunny on Tuesday I'd pack an umbrella.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
12. Like there's a shortage. Like it hasn't been posted before.
Sun May 18, 2014, 09:09 PM
May 2014

How very much some people care is evident already.

No trigger warning because it's a commercial (can't post shock content of course)

Read the first comment for an idea of what she went through.


redqueen

(115,103 posts)
13. ...
Sun May 18, 2014, 09:12 PM
May 2014

Again, read the first comment posted.

But how many care? Most just bury their heads in the sand.



redqueen

(115,103 posts)
14. Maybe we can't trust these women because they were personally harmed by porn
Sun May 18, 2014, 09:14 PM
May 2014

That's another cop out so many defenders use.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
16. trigger warning of course
Sun May 18, 2014, 09:40 PM
May 2014
But when the director finally got the pair to settle down to the business at hand — filming a sex scene — the tone changed. Without any prompting, Vidal got rough during the sex, slapping Michelle's face violently from side to side, and choking her.

Afterward, she looked shaken, her face reddened and her eyes watery. But she insisted she was OK. "I look torn up — can you tell?," she asked an ABCNEWS producer who was following her progress for Primetime. Laughing and wiping her eye, she turned away and said without conviction, "I took a beating today, and it was great."

...

During interviews with Primetime, Michelle kept the happy smile she had always had — even when describing things that many people would find disturbing. However, her composure cracked when Diane Sawyer asked why she always smiled. Tears came to her eyes as she said, "Because I like to hide — hide everything, you know?" Then she began to cry, explaining that she hides her real emotions because she wants to show everyone how happy she is. "And I'm not happy … I don't like myself at all," she said.

Michelle confessed she often felt physical revulsion during her scenes: "My whole entire body feels it when I'm doing it and … I feel so — so gross." While pretending to be enjoying the sex, she said, she was in fact counting the minutes, telling herself, "Hey, I only have this much time left. Don't worry about it. Get the check. Gonna go deposit it in your bank." She admitted: "You get addicted to the money."

http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/story?id=132369&page=1&singlePage=true

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
18. ...
Sun May 18, 2014, 09:56 PM
May 2014
Regan Starr who worked on the second film in this "line", Rough Sex 2, had a different take. "I got the shit kicked out of me," she said. "I was told before the video - and they said this very proudly, mind you - that in this line most of the girls start crying because they're hurting so bad . . . I couldn't breathe. I was being hit and choked. I was really upset, and they didn't stop. They kept filming. You can hear me say, 'Turn the fucking camera off', and they kept going."

http://www.theguardian.com/books/2001/mar/17/society.martinamis1


redqueen

(115,103 posts)
19. ...
Sun May 18, 2014, 10:01 PM
May 2014
Pornography has grown into a $10 billion business — bigger than the NFL, the NBA and Major League Baseball combined — and some of the nation's best-known corporations are quietly sharing the profits.

...

At conventions and other public events, the adult industry tends to portray itself as a happy family promoting shame-free sexual enjoyment. But privately, many performers say the reality is very different.

"There's some unwritten law or agenda out here in Pornoland that … if we tell the truth about what's really going on here, the fan will get turned off," said Ona Zee, a former performer who is now an advocate for reform.

While a hit movie can bring in as much as $1 million — adult movies have a very long shelf life, and can keep selling for years after their initial release — most performers see little of the profits. They are seldom paid residuals, and often get only a flat fee. The fees vary from $350 to $1,000 for a conventional sex scene to a few thousand dollars for more extreme sex.

...

http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/story?id=132001&page=1&singlePage=true

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
20. I'd love to talk about women as workers, and how to better meet their needs.
Sun May 18, 2014, 10:03 PM
May 2014

I don't see how stigmatizing or banning their jobs does that, we know that underground economies tend to make things worse for women.

I think this is thought provoking: http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/mar/12/who-speaks-for-women-work-adult-industry

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
22. I let these women speak for themselves.
Sun May 18, 2014, 10:06 PM
May 2014

I won't apologize for prioritizing the women who have been raped while working for kink.com over the women who insist the most important thing is that they keep getting fat checks from kink.com


I've spent too much time on this already and it's wasted effort anyway, I'm sure.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
23. But you're not listening to the women who have positive experiences,
Sun May 18, 2014, 10:09 PM
May 2014

or just could-be-improved experiences. You have a conclusion and only the evidence that supports it is valid. Even if that "evidence" comes from people who absolutely hate women and hate sex.

ismnotwasm

(41,982 posts)
15. Here
Sun May 18, 2014, 09:39 PM
May 2014
http://www.stopdemand.org/wawcs0153445/HOME.html

Unfortunately, Faith-based groups are some of the few very involved in stopping sexual trafficking. Not all are anti-choice, but far too many are. I was sick to my stomach when I was in a second hand store and heard of a march against sexual slavery on a Christian radio.

Why was I sick? Because where was my progressive community? Where was the outrage? Why is every discussion about this turned into a morality play; when it really is-- as this New Zealand site points out, about supply and demand, with no concern or care about the women or children involved.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
17. I dare not quote any of Shelley Lubben's resources.
Sun May 18, 2014, 09:41 PM
May 2014

She's a Christian and so she's probably making it all up!

Lies! Prude lies!

This place sometimes...

The priorities on display...


And CFLDem stop PMing me - I've blocked you now and I don't give a fuck what you think.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
21. Fundies have latched onto "anti-trafficking" efforts as their new way to save people from sex.
Sun May 18, 2014, 10:05 PM
May 2014

They don't give a shit about people who are trafficked to mule drugs or pick lettuce, which should be your first clue that their motives are suspect.

ismnotwasm

(41,982 posts)
24. It's a money thing-- they do that with AIDs in Africa too.
Sun May 18, 2014, 10:44 PM
May 2014

But, I'm not talking just about about fundies. I'm talking about faith based groups. Extremists of any religious stripe can kiss my ass.


My point was, these groups are by and large the only organized groups fighting trafficking besides feminists, and a few men's groups. Progressives apparently don't give a shit-- Lest they be branded "anti- sex"
It makes me sick.

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
26. Wait - is this guy actually trying to get men to stop jacking off?
Mon May 19, 2014, 01:16 AM
May 2014

You'd have much better luck trying to get monkeys to stop.

When we were kids, we'd whack off to a deck of cards with women's bloomers on the back.

As long as there are dirty pictures anywhere in the universe, and as long as mens' arms can reach their wieners, there will be jacking off to porn.

And by the way - that guy jacks off to porn. I can guarantee that with 100% certainty. You know how I know? Because he's drawing breath and has an arm.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
29. Why is it
Mon May 19, 2014, 07:15 AM
May 2014

that whenever people say anything negative about porn, someone thinks they're talking about masturbation. Those are two different subjects.

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
30. Does porn have any other uses?
Mon May 19, 2014, 07:58 AM
May 2014

Of course, masturbation is possible without porn; one just uses one's imagination. But the primary reason that people look at it is to facilitate masturbation.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
31. As you say
Mon May 19, 2014, 08:44 AM
May 2014

Masturbation is possible without porn, so disliking porn (and more specifically for this group, disliking the contemporary practice of very violent porn) does not mean disliking masturbation.

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
32. I've never considered rough or forced porn to be
Mon May 19, 2014, 03:32 PM
May 2014

tittilating in the least. The thing is, the line can be somewhat fuzzy.

Is the woman (or man) being coerced in any way? Are they under the influence of intoxicants? I think most halfway alert adults can detect this.

I think one action that might help would be to identify the studios, labels or directors who have a proven track record of producing coercive porn, and shining a big light on them. If more people knew that lives were being ruined for their enjoyment, maybe they'd alter their viewing habits and stick with the mom and pop stuff, or content that has established itself as purveying only non-coercive material.

There will always be customers who will crave violent porn, or beastiality, or dominance, shitting, or whatever.

As for myself, porn does nothing for me these days. The medications I'm on have sent every vestige of my libido packing, never to return.

On edit: I know this is an explosive subject here, and I appreciate being spoken to with civility. Thanks.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
27. As an aside, I see that in GD, there are 3 threads on porn on the front page.
Mon May 19, 2014, 01:46 AM
May 2014

None of them were started by posters who have also started threads in HoF, i.e., they are not 'HoFers'. Wanna bet how long it'll take until 'HoFers' are accused of mass posting porn threads again?

...getting very cynical about DU....

intaglio

(8,170 posts)
28. Porn can fuel human trafficking
Mon May 19, 2014, 03:59 AM
May 2014

The important word is "can" it can also supply income for organised crime - neither of these is a necessary consequence of the Porn industry any more than slavery was a necessary consequence of the cotton and tobacco plantation or that alcohol was caused criminal enterprise to be involved with its distribution.

Firstly, there are some few people; male, female, and gender variant; who are sexually exhibitionist and enjoy displaying themselves.

Secondly there are those who find the sexual act (of whatever variety) pleasurable but unimportant and uninvolving, they may feel that work in that area is no different from any other type of acting.

Thirdly and most disturbingly there are those who undertake (or are forced into) this work for economic reasons. Unfortunately these are the vulnerable who work for peanuts or drugs when they are paid at all. It is these vulnerable people who must be protected.

One thing that has to be discussed whether porn harms or women or men by it's very existence. My answer is that in the main and as it currently exists it does, this does not mean all porn is harmful but that the majority of it is. Is reform possible? possibly. I am sure that there are responsible corporate film makers but it may come down to the "Mom and Pop" film makers working the internet for their personal profit and enjoyment to lead any revolution.

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