Democratic Primaries
Related: About this forumI am 67 and the age of candidates is a concern for me
since my mother went into a nursing home with the start of dementia at age 69 and in hindsight it was clear that she was in its early stage years earlier but it was ignored or explained away by me and my siblings. She wasn't bad at the beginning but I watched as she began to live in the big Now until she disappeared by inches and the big Now collapsed upon itself and she died in that nursing home 15 years after she entered it.
I carry the gene for Alzheimer's and am not at the age my mother first showed the signs of it (note: her dad lived to be 86, smoke for 70 years, and his mind was sharp to the end), so I worry when I can't remember things and I know my memory will not get better as I age.
Many suspected that Reagan had dementia in his second term and he was diagnosed with it 5 years after he left office. But I know that people may exhibit signs of dementia years before they are "diagnosed" with it. So when it comes to our candidates, the prospect of their having even the early signs of dementia is important to me.
I am an "Undecided" and the only "my candidate, right or wrong" I will have will be the presidential nominee of the Democratic Party.
Then I will be "Decided".
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
ProudMNDemocrat
(16,786 posts)It is the mind and overall physical health that is important.
With age, comes wisdom. Though I find people who are younger than me , filled with more common sense and wisdom than many people older than me, but lack the physical vigor to persue their dreams. So the door swings both ways.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
virgogal
(10,178 posts)Changes DO take place no matter how you have taken care of yourself over the years.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
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mahatmakanejeeves
(57,504 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
rzemanfl
(29,565 posts)sometimes that works, sometimes it doesn't.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Demsrule86
(68,593 posts)thinking.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
bucolic_frolic
(43,191 posts)We all know sugar and salt and fats and lack of exercise. Even genes can be just potential until activated.
Visage is a window to the soul and the mind. Gimme vigor.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cha
(297,323 posts)over the years and years and years!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Ohiogal
(32,010 posts)You have to be physically and mentally on top of your game. Trump obviously flunks both these qualifications.
I have seen some folks at 65 sliding downhill, and I have seen others into their 90s sharp as a tack. I guess it depends upon the individual. But I understand your concerns.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
treestar
(82,383 posts)You don't have to drive. All logistics are taken care of. No concern about meals, clothes, how to get there, having enough gas in the car, everything is planned for you. Anything you need information on, there are advisors and clerks to do it for you. If you are a people person, it's likely to be just plain fun.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Skya Rhen
(2,701 posts)certainly did not age him much, if at all. Compare his photo at inauguration and his photo, today.
So the theory that the Presidency takes a toll on the person, holds no water. Trump proves that.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Princetonian
(1,501 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Laura PourMeADrink
(42,770 posts)and problems to deal with and solve. This takes a toll on a real president. But trump is not, and it shows. Well documented that he cant even listen to super simple brief presentation with pictures. If someone tries to go deep, he orders that they are never allowed in his office again.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Skya Rhen
(2,701 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
BeyondGeography
(39,375 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
JI7
(89,252 posts)over bad things that happen to other people because he doesn't care.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
treestar
(82,383 posts)No offense.
It depends on the person. And people who live lives as eventful as the politicians do stay sharp longer. Once you retire, you are going to lose function due to that. Jimmy Carter still isn't retired. So many old people are in DC, which must be very stimulating to work in, or they'd have retired.
Republicans are figureheads as POTUS, so it is not surprising that they have issues. Reagan was just an actor. The Dotard is, well, a special case.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Dennis Donovan
(18,770 posts)I don't believe it was called Alzheimer's at this point. But, according to my older siblings, she started forgetting things like names, etc.
I was born in 1965, so her symptoms were advanced by then (and I do not have any recollection of her other than being very ill).
That said, Age, as a campaign issue, is nonsense. Look at it this way; we need a kind, EXPERIENCED POTUS after having the biggest asshole POTUS in our Republic's history.
President Carter is 94 and shows NO signs of being ill, Alzheimer's or any other-wise.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Chemisse
(30,813 posts)I'm 64 and I worry about the age of some of our candidates also.
But I am resigned to possibly having a very old candidate and am just anxious that we have a highly qualified VP to step in when or if needed.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
GemDigger
(4,305 posts)getting out the vote, phone banking, working the polls, yoga, swimming, gardening, housekeeping and also doing community service. All their faculties are still intact as well as their health. Only 1 of the 5 are on meds of any sort and that one is for blood pressure.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
loyalsister
(13,390 posts)It isn't only dementia that is concerning to me. It's that the presidency is a 24/7 responsibility and our bodies and minds are naturally less optimally functional as we age. The odds of developing conditions which make ordinary activity more difficult also increase with age.
The limits of life span are not arbitrary or imagined. They are averages that reflect the natural reality of our biological conditions. I am currently rooting for Elizabeth Warren and her plans, and am very open to changing to a younger candidate whose plans appeal to me.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
greymattermom
(5,754 posts)I used to work with a group of neurologists studying the role of exercise in aging, and I did some studies myself. They have shown that treadmill walking can delay the progression of Alzheimer's in patients who have early signs of the disease. Trump can't walk very far.
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primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
IluvPitties
(3,181 posts)I know 70-somethings who are sharper and in better physical and mental shape than 20-somethings, and I am not kidding.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
handmade34
(22,756 posts)we should look at the individual... all of my relatives (that didn't die in wars or accidents) were healthy and of sound mind into their 80's and 90's
some of our greatest people were/are very capable well into their 80's+
Madeleine Albright
Ruth Bader Ginsburg
Grandma Moses
Jane....... oh, of course, they are all women...
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)it won't be much of an issue except for those who don't turn out to vote because it's just a bunch of old guys/ladies running.
It's an issue in the primaries, but only one of many factors in weighing the candidates.
As long as I trust an old candidate can win and appoint a good team of advisers, I'm OK with age.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Thekaspervote
(32,778 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)But I get it... lacking objective evidence, we often just project and apply our own experiences and shortcomings to everyone around us.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
elocs
(22,582 posts)given my experience which is, like other examples given of the opposite, anecdotal.
Everybody knows or has heard of the 100 year old person who has smoked and drank whiskey all of their life as well as eating bacon every day and is as sharp as a tack.
Yes, everybody is an individual and I can understand the "my candidate, right or wrong" attitudes. Republicans do exactly the same with Trump and look how bad he is.
Being president is a mentally tough job for those who are serious about it, clearly Trump is not,
but even someone like Barack Obama who was a relatively young man when he became president showed the rigors of the office in how his appearance aged in 8 years.
But dementia happens to most of us senior citizens to one degree or another and it creeps slowly, not being manifested full-blown at the beginning. I do know if this question was being raised with a Republican candidate that we would not be so quick to dismiss it and there would be no talk of "ageism" then.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
nolabear
(41,987 posts)is who the person chooses to fill key positions, do do the actual day to day work of gathering info, presenting it, making recommendations, maintaining relationships, handling bureaucracies, and generally carrying out the agenda.
That kind of thing comes from character and having a plan. I agree being smart, healthy and capable is vitally important, but its not a one person job and the wisdom to create a vibrant Executive Team is every bit as important, as noted by the disaster we have now.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
CountAllVotes
(20,876 posts)It concerns me too.
I've seen dementia in my family as well.
My grandmother lived to be 81 years old but she had not a clue as to who she was in the end.
They did not have such diagnoses as Alzheimer's disease, etc. at the time she died (1974) but looking back, that is what she had.
She had two sons that lived, one being my father. His brother (my late uncle) was a mental case and then some at the age of 71. He dropped dead on the street of a heart attack and oh what a huge mess he left behind.
Such a mess that some 20+ years after his death things are still popping up, like unclaimed property, some has been in the thousands of dollars just sitting there in the State's unclaimed property account.
A little demented? Um yeah, I think so!
& recommend.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
MBS
(9,688 posts)Last edited Wed Aug 14, 2019, 06:34 AM - Edit history (1)
The presidency is a demanding and by all evidence, instantly aging job, and the next president will be dealing with what is essentially a national emergency.
We need someone who is at the top of their game, and who can serve two full terms with all cylinders firing.. I'm less worried about dementia, but more worried about whether the next president will have the needed energy, stamina, vision and freshness of perspective.
We need a president with the energy, stamina, vision, and freshness of perspective not only to get us out of this mess but also to move us forward in a creative and hopeful and productive direction.
Picking a younger VP as backup is not enough for me (and, sorry, doing so would also be an admission about the limitations of the presidential candidate in question).
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)Sure, everyone slows down at different rates, but we all still slow down. And eventually break down.
I would not automatically discount a candidate simply because of his or her age, but given a choice between older and younger-- if pretty much everything else is even, I would go for the younger. The odds are just better.
FWIW, Warren isn't that much younger than Bernie or Biden, (or me) but she doesn't seem to be slowing down at all. I wouldn't be at all surprised if she actually had a successful second term. Well, maybe a little surprised, but not much. Certainly not as much as those two other guys.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
oasis
(49,390 posts)So what's the big deal?
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
elocs
(22,582 posts)but I'm voting for the person and it's my deal to be big.
In my OP I said the age of the candidates, plural, was a concern for me so why does it seem it's just the Biden supporters who are so touchy about it? I will surely vote for him if he is the nominee.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Joe941
(2,848 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
JI7
(89,252 posts)younger ones.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided