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elocs

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26. I would have learned racism from my father but I didn't
Mon May 14, 2018, 09:43 AM
May 2018

even though he was a poor man from rural Mississippi and we lived in Memphis when I was 4. I can remember playing with black kids and I knew they had different color skin but it had no more meaning to me than different color hair and I never heard any different from my dad. I can remember black women babysitting me and he would address them with "yes ma'am" and "no ma'am" just like any other woman. Granted, I lead a very sheltered life at that age but I was never taught that black people were inferior.
But when we moved to Wisconsin when I started school, to a small city that might have had a couple of black families in town, that's when I learned about racism and it was a shock to me.
At school during recess some white kids were picking on a younger black boy and pushing him around and knocking him down and it suddenly occurred to me that it was because the kid was black. That happened nearly 60 years ago and I remember it distinctly to this day.

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Racism is not dying [View all] Soph0571 May 2018 OP
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You are correct. betsuni May 2018 #6
Kurt, I'm not an anthropologist but.. KY_EnviroGuy May 2018 #7
your thoughts are always appreciated. Kurt V. May 2018 #10
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Yes, it will be interesting to watch. KY_EnviroGuy May 2018 #15
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Absolutely, there is much more to learn about Kurt V. May 2018 #19
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yikes! Kurt V. May 2018 #22
That's sweet, thanks! My husband's out right now Hortensis May 2018 #23
You'te right Hortensis SCantiGOP May 2018 #5
Love talk of "triumph of morality and intellectual reasoning." Hortensis May 2018 #14
That's a great post Hortensis Uncle Joe May 2018 #16
I'll be satisfied with just white supremacy dying off at this point. MrScorpio May 2018 #3
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What a nasty kid! MineralMan May 2018 #17
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Challenges in his personal life made him do it dalton99a May 2018 #29
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I would have learned racism from my father but I didn't elocs May 2018 #26
never did peps , always been here in the shadows , now borught out in the open by a idiiot prez AllaN01Bear May 2018 #27
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