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cab67

(3,447 posts)
22. Understood
Sat Mar 27, 2021, 10:12 PM
Mar 2021

I guess I was thinking about overt bigotry. At least in the parts of the country I've lived, if one had racist opinions, one didn't speak of them except around close friends and family. We're not supposed to be racists anymore dontcha know.

Moreover, a lot of the systemic racism out there is driven by people who might genuinely not think they're racists at all. This includes some of the de facto segregation you mentioned (though not all of it). They may not understand the impact of their words or actions on perpetuating privilege, or they may argue - in some cases out of sincerity - that they're worried about crime and drugs among impoverished people. They'll say it's not about race - why, they know all kinds of black people who live middle-class lives of virtue, and there are a lot of white lowlives in the country. Of course it's about race, but a lot of people would be offended if you pointed this out.

(They should be offended, I think.)

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Good Post! ProfessorGAC Mar 2021 #1
I was raised Diamond_Dog Mar 2021 #2
I was raisied by a bigot father too. Tommymac Mar 2021 #17
I was too. Blue_playwright Mar 2021 #19
Whenever I here that edhopper Mar 2021 #3
Well, abolitionists were also "old-fashioned", so that doesn't even come close to being an excuse. eppur_se_muova Mar 2021 #4
Yep - my husband's ancestor was at the state meeting when the Quakers split over abolition csziggy Mar 2021 #16
Oddly enough, this reminds me of the "when SNL was funny" crowd. Maybe someone can explain it better dameatball Mar 2021 #5
IT WAS WRONG THEN, IT IS WRONG NOW Skittles Mar 2021 #6
+1 2naSalit Mar 2021 #9
What?? It's prejudice baggage. I thought we never tolerated childhood baggage past age 30! ancianita Mar 2021 #7
Unless you're about a hundred fifty years old there is no way Raine Mar 2021 #8
My father grew up in one of those towns where blacks, except latrine cleaners, had to be gone by Karadeniz Mar 2021 #10
How one is raised and how one behaves are not the same thing. It's called choice. nt Biophilic Mar 2021 #11
I'm 68 y/o Dem_in_Nebr. Mar 2021 #12
. Lame excuse if ever there was one czarjak Mar 2021 #13
All progeny of my parental units recoiled at their racism... and tendency to vote against their own lambchopp59 Mar 2021 #14
I wouldn't go so far as to say that racism has been understood to be a character flaw since 1967 dsc Mar 2021 #15
Understood cab67 Mar 2021 #22
both are terrible, the old fashioned is worse RANDYWILDMAN Mar 2021 #18
served in the military . monkeyman1 Mar 2021 #20
K & R mountain grammy Mar 2021 #21
Just other ways of saying "I'm not even gonna try to justify my unjustifiable behavior" RockRaven Mar 2021 #23
My people used to torture captives, cut their thoats, and bury them in the bogs DBoon Mar 2021 #24
I am quite old fashioned tirebiter Mar 2021 #25
Can you give an example? TheFarseer Mar 2021 #26
I've witnessed it myself. cab67 Mar 2021 #29
3 & 4 definitely TheFarseer Mar 2021 #30
"My father, his father, his father before him...all Sons Of The Confederacy." BobTheSubgenius Mar 2021 #27
Members of my family were racists Marthe48 Mar 2021 #28
But you'll never hear "Call me old fashioned but the CEO-worker pay ratio seems a little off" ck4829 Mar 2021 #31
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