I try not to criticize other DUer's posts for lack of background info, but I have been known to. And I hope I circle back when the info is either made available or an explanation is given - I hope I remember to thank the poster.
You put more life stories in a post than most of us can scrape together with a years-worth of searching. Not to sound fawning but I always look forward to the initial read and the (mainly) thoughtful comments and responses by the rest of us. Do you have a book lined up?