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ratchiweenie

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12. My husband has chronic pain in his elbows, lower arms, and hands. He is 76 years old.
Wed Nov 30, 2022, 01:01 PM
Nov 2022

We lived in Oregon and went through hell getting him very low dose (5mg every eight to ten hours) oxycodone script each month and often he had to go several days after a prescription ran out to get another LEGAL prescription filled. We moved to Montana 3 years ago and he has not been able to get his medication. His hands are so bad he sometimes can't pick up a fork. His elbows ache all night long. He does not drink or smoke or use any other drugs.

Several physicians have told him that they agree that it's ridiculous that an old man in chronic pain can't get anything to ease that pain but their hands are tied by the DEA and the State of Montana. They have given him gabapentin which doesn't relive the pain and just makes him "stupid" and all the doctors (who of course have never had chronic pain) seem to think he should be okay with that and stop complaining. It really is a travesty to have to watch people suffer so much when the cure is so simple. My husband is not an addict and even if he was, he laughingly keeps telling the doctors, I am 76 years old, the pain is killing me. Who cares if I am addicted to a medication that causes no other problems in my life and makes my life bearable.

There is a reason there are lots of old oxy and heroin addicts but not many old serious alcoholics. Low dose Oxy does not destroy the liver or other organs. It does not rot the brain. It is a crime to be left to suffer because a lot of crooked fat cats got rich off addicting people. I am so sick of these Christian Conservatives and their lack of morals.

The DEA can find these small practices actually serving patients but couldn't find podunk ... marble falls Nov 2022 #1
+1 ProfessorGAC Nov 2022 #33
The DEA is very good at finding possible irregularities and totally walking past 5 alarm fires. marble falls Dec 2022 #36
Apparently So! ProfessorGAC Dec 2022 #37
I too believe the DEA is overreaching. Pain is counterproductive and inhibits healing. Raster Nov 2022 #2
Yeah, watched my spouse suffer from constant pain Farmer-Rick Nov 2022 #3
Since you mentioned shingles pain... blugbox Nov 2022 #7
so sorry to hear happy feet Nov 2022 #8
Thank you very much blugbox Nov 2022 #10
I too have been dealing with post-shingles neuralgia of the trigeminal nerve for the past 3 years. LudwigPastorius Nov 2022 #11
I take gabapentin for that Jilly_in_VA Nov 2022 #14
Oh my blugbox Farmer-Rick Nov 2022 #15
Omg, I am so sorry you had it on your head and face Catherine Vincent Nov 2022 #28
I recently developed shingles Catherine Vincent Nov 2022 #27
I gave up on pain meds for my back pain. Lochloosa Nov 2022 #4
I get a 30 day supply of Vicodin in FL. And he used to give me paper copy along with calling Maraya1969 Nov 2022 #24
Identical Experience With My Wife ProfessorGAC Nov 2022 #34
We shouldn't need pain clinics but we do. Primary care Drs got screwed by surgeons flying_wahini Nov 2022 #5
we need a constitutional ammendment giving us an uninfringed right to medicine Blues Heron Nov 2022 #6
The Pharmaceutical Enforcement Complex approve$ MarcA Nov 2022 #9
My husband has chronic pain in his elbows, lower arms, and hands. He is 76 years old. ratchiweenie Nov 2022 #12
If his pain is due to arthritis Farmer-Rick Nov 2022 #17
Yes and no. He has arthritis but it's caused by years of remodel work that damaged ratchiweenie Nov 2022 #19
Chronic pain is a fatal condition. Suicide is more common than you think Warpy Nov 2022 #13
On a related note not fooled Nov 2022 #16
Me too. James48 Nov 2022 #18
So sorry. That's what we went through too and when we moved to Montana ratchiweenie Nov 2022 #21
Pain-related research in many fields has increased, but Hortensis Nov 2022 #20
In 2008, broke ankle in car accident, was already dealing childfreebychoice Nov 2022 #26
Tragic! It's no coincidence that a mean era elected mean people, Hortensis Nov 2022 #30
That's about 1/3 of the population! I had no idea. Hermit-The-Prog Dec 2022 #39
Yes. Obviously not all severe or chronic sufferers, but Hortensis Dec 2022 #40
why arent we allowed self-defense against pain? Blues Heron Nov 2022 #22
Agreed Snackshack Nov 2022 #23
I have been watching "Pain Warriors" this morning. Maraya1969 Nov 2022 #25
ACAB, and that includes the DEA. They are not here to help. WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2022 #29
I've known one of three persons with chronic pain problems. Backseat Driver Nov 2022 #31
This thread is progress, in my opinion. Ms. Toad Nov 2022 #32
We've been in the wars on this together in many a thread. Coventina Nov 2022 #35
Can we put some doctors in charge of the DEA? RussBLib Dec 2022 #38
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