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Scrivener7

(56,873 posts)
11. PCIntern, you're one of the good guys.
Tue May 16, 2023, 04:32 PM
May 2023

When I was in my 20s and early 30s and in my first career, I was one of the first generation of women who worked in a field that had previously been entirely male dominated. So I was often one of a very few women in a room of men who tended to be 30 years older than me, or more.

I have to tell you, the thought processes that go on in some men's heads are completely bizarre. Some of them seemed to think they just had to place themselves in front of me and say something suggestive, and I was expected to fall at their feet.

I remember sitting at lunch with one once. It was a command performance that was required for my job. He kept telling me that when I slept with him (when, not if), he would introduce me to James Taylor. I kept saying, in no uncertain terms and without laughing or doing anything that would dilute the message, "That just isn't going to happen." And he kept reacting as if I was being coy and we both knew I though he was the greatest.

To this day, the thing that is clearest in my memory is the sweat droplet that was hanging from his earlobe. Blech.

There are a lot of Rudys out there.

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Let alone, just look at him: he's fucking disgusting. marble falls May 2023 #1
Worm was the word I used.... PCIntern May 2023 #2
And worm fills the bill. I worked a lot of places where men in power harass women under 21. And ... marble falls May 2023 #7
Honestly, that seems a bit unfair. HardPort May 2023 #12
Exactly! And been that way for a long time. LymphocyteLover May 2023 #18
True I'm an older woman and I say I would've made a joke joke about it but Walleye May 2023 #3
Horrifying. PCIntern May 2023 #4
Power corrupts. marble falls May 2023 #25
And their kind of power corrupts in the worst way Walleye May 2023 #27
True. It's not just younger women at risk. Noelle is 44. Marcuse May 2023 #41
This is why we all have to be there for each other. GreenWave May 2023 #5
I am convinced that kindness is good for your health Walleye May 2023 #6
ok, I searched before asking but what Giuliani thing? CurtEastPoint May 2023 #8
This is the first one on the list. LoisB May 2023 #9
He is a POS TheRealNorth May 2023 #10
PCIntern, you're one of the good guys. Scrivener7 May 2023 #11
Agree - PCIntern is a good guy. He cares about people in general. erronis May 2023 #24
You'd know by now if you were the type of person who could impose like that. Scrivener7 May 2023 #26
Great example. Revolting. Evolve Dammit May 2023 #28
Using humor to humiliate could backfire in this situation. diva77 May 2023 #13
He is hideous get the red out May 2023 #14
The whole idea is just nauseating Diamond_Dog May 2023 #15
I wouldn't be able to stop barfing if Guiliani got within 10 feet of me. The "ick" factor is strong LoisB May 2023 #16
Besides being a hideous human being AuntieKatie May 2023 #17
Rude Rudy Kid Berwyn May 2023 #19
It is disgusting!!! But I have a couple of questions: Bluesaph May 2023 #20
I'm with you, Bluesaph. moreland01 May 2023 #23
As a bedside nurse for 25 years I am rather surprised that anybody IS surprised. flying_wahini May 2023 #21
No kidding, men live in a privileged world Warpy May 2023 #29
It's so gross n/t hibbing May 2023 #22
My sister and I, near twins in most every way -- in education, politics, employment, etc... hunter May 2023 #30
I'm surprised it isn't being covered by the MSM. Hot story! n/t Peregrine Took May 2023 #31
Yes he is vile and disgusting vlyons May 2023 #32
You are definitely one of the good one, PCI. rudy, by the way, is, or was, impotent, niyad May 2023 #33
Thanks for the laugh. steventh May 2023 #34
I have to say Skittles May 2023 #35
"I have the super power of a cloak of invisibility that no female in her 20s 30s or 40s can see me.. Escurumbele May 2023 #36
Rofl. Thank you Joinfortmill May 2023 #37
" frontal lobe dementia" Is that a polite way of saying batshit crazy? flashman13 May 2023 #38
Well, yes, and no... PCIntern May 2023 #44
Remember Rudy on the bed with his hands down his pants in follow-up Borat film womanofthehills May 2023 #39
As someone born in the 40s, there was just so much that we happened that we took for halfulglas May 2023 #40
Could be long term alcohol damage to the brain n/t TexasBushwhacker May 2023 #42
It assaults the consciousness... kentuck May 2023 #43
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