I'm gonna tell you why I personally find this Giuliani thing so revolting...

[hunter]

30. My sister and I, near twins in most every way -- in education, politics, employment, etc...

... have had very different life experiences.

My wife too.

I'm automatically accepted by U.S.A. society as a straight white guy. I don't have to show my official Straight White Guy identification card for anything. I know the rules of that game, hard won as that education was, my middle and high school queerbait self. (Yes, that's what the bullies called me.)

My sister and my wife and my mom have always had to consider these things when seeking new employment. I haven't.

It's likely I've never had a boss who'd hired me imaging I'd suck his penis.

Okay, I'll confess, I had one boss like that, but it was always silly, and nobody in his office, male, female, or other, ever felt threatened so far as I know. He probably died a virgin and wanted it that way. But that's another story...

...or maybe not. If someone told me otherwise I wouldn't immediately dismiss it.