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Hortensis

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19. Well, we raised our children in California, earthquakes,
Sat May 27, 2023, 12:18 PM
May 2023

fires, people, etc, so probably that's a reason. That was the era of serial killers in our city. We didn't just start looking for exits in THIS century, but it was part of being sensible, not about inflating real dangers beyond all rationality and running scared.

I knew where the exits were in our big mall because...earthquake, fire, and yes, dangerous people who could run out one with a child or follow me into a bathroom. Gang fights were rare in ours but possible. Nothing's changed in that respect.

Now, one of the old dangers has become less incredibly unlikely. Yeah, it's sad, but our job is to put an end to it. Reevaluation is in order, but with a cool look realizing personal danger's still extremely unlikely, a way of clearing the mental decks.

Because the REAL, NEW danger we did not have before is that FEAR, outsized, irrational fear, may cause society to make very dangerous, horrible decisions. To vote for fake safety over freedom. That's exactly what these people want.

Cool evaluation time. But for a touch of bravery if necessary, and surely for being pissed off too?

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Can I ask what state that is in? Scrivener7 May 2023 #1
Maryland. halfulglas May 2023 #2
So sad. TdeV May 2023 #3
A putin dream come true. rubbersole May 2023 #4
Yes, but good and appropriate also. Emergency safety and exit procedures Hortensis May 2023 #5
Definitely appropriate and good for them for thinking of it, but still scary. halfulglas May 2023 #13
At my age I'm used to scoping out where the nearest bathroom is, especially in a large venue. halfulglas May 2023 #14
Well, we raised our children in California, earthquakes, Hortensis May 2023 #19
Yep. Sadly, your granddaughter's generation has been hearing that whole lives. progressoid May 2023 #6
Did they tell people to "Play Dead"? KS Toronado May 2023 #7
Unfortunately, there are huge parts of the world where this is a daily concern erronis May 2023 #8
A new euphemism for 2nd-amendment-celebrations sanatanadharma May 2023 #9
We are a traumatized nation. The FUD crowd is winning. littlemissmartypants May 2023 #10
I was thinking about that today at the grocery store. LisaM May 2023 #12
We'll all have PTSD eventually. It's a sad state of affairs. ❤️ littlemissmartypants May 2023 #15
I was telling my husband earlier everyone Tree Lady May 2023 #16
I understand. I'm struggling with my attitude. I've been know as patient and sweet most of my life. littlemissmartypants May 2023 #17
Sorry for your loss that's beyond tough Tree Lady May 2023 #18
So fucking sad. Glad for the graduate but we are facing crazy everywhere. Evolve Dammit May 2023 #11
Well, we do have to bear in mind the rights of Aristus May 2023 #20
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