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40. don't even get me started on BS

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I learned something today about toxic masculinity. [View all] LAS14 Aug 2024 OP

REAL MEN don't need validation Skittles Aug 2024 #1

Of course that's true, but... LAS14 Aug 2024 #3

um Skittles Aug 2024 #10

We need a description, not just models. LAS14 Aug 2024 #11

simple common human decency? Skittles Aug 2024 #13

That doesn't address the need because it applies equally to both sexes. nt LAS14 Aug 2024 #14

why do men need more? Skittles Aug 2024 #16

I have been arguing this lfor two decades while men have been battling LizBeth Aug 2024 #28

right Skittles Aug 2024 #33

They were the men supporting Sanders but just could not get themselves to support HRC LizBeth Aug 2024 #35

don't even get me started on BS Skittles Aug 2024 #40

Bah hhaahahahaaha LizBeth Aug 2024 #44

So what became of the idea that the Democratic party has a big tent? LAS14 Aug 2024 #98

we are a big tent Skittles Aug 2024 #105

So, Dems coddle make ego so they feel secure in masculinity in order to get their vote even IF LizBeth Aug 2024 #112

What you Rebl2 Aug 2024 #76

Create your own description mercuryblues Aug 2024 #43

I'm pretty sure what these insecure men "need" Skittles Aug 2024 #59

Yes. Bottom line. Yes. this is what it is and we are having none of it. Old, tired, done!!! LizBeth Aug 2024 #61

But 1st, they need women to tell them what it is and how to do it. mercuryblues Aug 2024 #66

lol.... sigh, ya. LizBeth Aug 2024 #70

We are not responsible for their behavior Zoomie1986 Aug 2024 #90

Thank you for this: mucholderthandirt Aug 2024 #121

Operationalizing positive masculinity: a theoretical synthesis and school-based framework to engage boys and young men Celerity Aug 2024 #48

As ever, thank you so much for this important information. niyad Aug 2024 #88

Yw! Celerity Aug 2024 #96

Thanks! nt LAS14 Aug 2024 #92

Yw! Celerity Aug 2024 #97

👍 claudette Aug 2024 #56

Amen sister! Glamrock Aug 2024 #79

'sup Glamrock!!! Skittles Aug 2024 #80

Walz is a very positive masculine symbol Sanity Claws Aug 2024 #2

I don't think the mere presence of an admirable man on the ticket... LAS14 Aug 2024 #6

Strong disagree. Happy Hoosier Aug 2024 #85

Did you read the post above? nocoincidences Aug 2024 #106

He wants men to have their own adjectives that are special to only men, that women do not have. LizBeth Aug 2024 #113

Is Walz filling the role of a positive male role model? senseandsensibility Aug 2024 #4

See reply #6. LAS14 Aug 2024 #8

Tim Walz. He illustrates it perfectly. ms liberty Aug 2024 #5

See reply #6. LAS14 Aug 2024 #9

Like my brother. no_hypocrisy Aug 2024 #7

Now is there a way to translate that into a political position, the way... LAS14 Aug 2024 #12

Decent human being, caring, RandomNumbers Aug 2024 #38

I see examples of positive masculinity every day. FuzzyRabbit Aug 2024 #15

Can you transform these examples... LAS14 Aug 2024 #19

Who says there has to be only one way to be a "real man"? FuzzyRabbit Aug 2024 #22

"Strong, head of the family" isn't a "political vision" SharonClark Aug 2024 #39

I gasped... I thought you were defining as head of house.... lmao LizBeth Aug 2024 #47

I dont disagree that there has been shift right by men and left by women LizBeth Aug 2024 #17

We can't just rest on being the party of secure men. LAS14 Aug 2024 #20

You seem to not even get close to the point. You cannot "define" masculinity. LizBeth Aug 2024 #23

yup Skittles Aug 2024 #24

You think you're going to get that by SharonClark Aug 2024 #30

Exactly and women are clever enough having expoerienced men defining us... always LizBeth Aug 2024 #36

Thank you. Think. Again. Aug 2024 #103

A man who uses his strength to take responsibility rather than power Walleye Aug 2024 #18

Aha! Getting there! LAS14 Aug 2024 #21

If men only knew how much that kind of support means to us Walleye Aug 2024 #25

So the speaker was telling them not to be SharonClark Aug 2024 #42

CORRECT!!! Skittles Aug 2024 #49

That it is even being needed to be said they are not emasculated voting for a woman, and a black one at that LizBeth Aug 2024 #51

How is that an iota bit of difference from femininity? I suppose next we will say strong LizBeth Aug 2024 #26

Thank you! SharonClark Aug 2024 #31

Good answer... Septua Aug 2024 #87

Um....President Joe Biden! Clouds Passing Aug 2024 #27

your question: What would a leftist vision of positive masculinity look like? Attilatheblond Aug 2024 #29

You left off Pete and Chasten Buttigieg. They're masculine and not toxically so. n/t dobleremolque Aug 2024 #73

wasn't going personal names, but I agree with you. Those two men are top notch masculine and real mensch types. Attilatheblond Aug 2024 #82

You'd be shocked to find out how many of those people vote for Republicans mathematic Aug 2024 #94

Not shocked at all. Well aware that GOP supporters are in many groups Attilatheblond Aug 2024 #95

Let me give you an example I have had a blast with almost yr now. Swift/Kelce LizBeth Aug 2024 #32

I feel like this idea falls into the trap of the right's idea of forming a preception of what a man and what a woman Claustrum Aug 2024 #34

Well said. Think. Again. Aug 2024 #104

Excuse me, but - - Bull S___!! stopdiggin Aug 2024 #37

Here is another I just LOVE.... We call our little two year olds, little men. Dad leaves the house LizBeth Aug 2024 #41

You must be my sister from another mother. SharonClark Aug 2024 #45

Isn't it just so fuckin stupid and men take it so seriously, and I am all like.... NO!!!! LizBeth Aug 2024 #52

Tell it! Attilatheblond Aug 2024 #57

Just as a matter of curiosity, why does The Left have to do everything? niyad Aug 2024 #46

That's a good question. calimary Aug 2024 #60

Why don't you tell us? tenderfoot Aug 2024 #50

What is the opposite of Rush Limbaugh? SleeplessinSoCal Aug 2024 #53

Except that is women too. I guess they need to find adjectives that ONLY define them and to that, LizBeth Aug 2024 #54

toxic masculinity nails them. SleeplessinSoCal Aug 2024 #89

What would "negative" claudette Aug 2024 #55

Barack Obama was not adequate? Was it the tan suit? Hekate Aug 2024 #58

OMgosh, the tan suit took down the manly snowflakes. lol LizBeth Aug 2024 #62

Obama? Young, dynamic, handsome, sank that three-pointer? viva la Aug 2024 #63

As David French points out, the GOP go with the low and vulgar and violent as "masculine"-- viva la Aug 2024 #65

I see your edit. Asking for description. It cannot be done. LizBeth Aug 2024 #64

Positive masculinity: Lunabell Aug 2024 #67

Men are more logical than women? Where did my logic go. I always had such an abundance. LizBeth Aug 2024 #72

Well, talk to researchers,not me. Lunabell Aug 2024 #83

I think if you will google are men more logical you will find a lot of data to contradict LizBeth Aug 2024 #84

I think its more left brained for men elias7 Aug 2024 #86

Tbh most if not all of this is due to socialization. Oneironaut Aug 2024 #115

"Right" and "left" brainedness is a myth, fyi. Oneironaut Aug 2024 #114

..being a conscious and decent human being? whathehell Aug 2024 #68

This isn't the place for that conversation Sympthsical Aug 2024 #69

If you don't like the answers why not provide an example yourself ecstatic Aug 2024 #71

Role models on the left are everywhere, there is Biden, Obama, and Walz and many many more. Bev54 Aug 2024 #74

A real man possesses both strength and compassion. usonian Aug 2024 #75

Masculinity is a pointless social construct. meadowlander Aug 2024 #77

Hear Hear! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Aug 2024 #91

What virtues are distinctly masculine? eallen Aug 2024 #78

Yeah. LAS14 Aug 2024 #93

No... They say leader, strong, protector, integrity ect.... they just IGNORE that women LizBeth Aug 2024 #100

You think "compassionate" is associated with masculinity? Sky Jewels Aug 2024 #116

No. I think it SHOULD be associated with masculinity. Which is not to say... LAS14 Aug 2024 #120

And they wonder why quality women shun them rockbluff botanist Aug 2024 #81

What would a leftist vision of positive masculinity look like? LudwigPastorius Aug 2024 #99

Why do you feel that reverting to gender stereotyping is necessary to win this election?? Think. Again. Aug 2024 #101

As a woman, I could be totally wrong wryter2000 Aug 2024 #102

It's impossible for a man to answer this question without being accused of "mansplaining." PeaceWave Aug 2024 #107

You want toxic? LiberaBlueDem Aug 2024 #108

I am ForgedCrank Aug 2024 #109

PLEASE!!! Enough already! How about we STOP letting the rwnj's set the terms niyad Aug 2024 #110

The problem is that the wealthy and celebrities get away with being bullies... haele Aug 2024 #111

Getting tired of this trope that women are GenThePerservering Aug 2024 #117

I don't buy the notion that "the right has a story to tell" or... CBHagman Aug 2024 #118

Agree GenThePerservering Aug 2024 #119

I'm going to see what Obama is thinking regarding this subject. LAS14 Aug 2024 #122

Reeves is the #1 guy on this subject! BluesRunTheGame Aug 2024 #123