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In reply to the discussion: Why is Drumpf so full of rage? [View all]CentralMass
(16,425 posts)Common triggers for narcissistic rage
Perceived threat to self-esteem or image: Even minor criticisms, disagreements, or anything that highlights a flaw or mistake can be interpreted as a deep personal attack, triggering intense anger and defensiveness.
Loss of control: Narcissists have a strong need to be in control, and feeling powerless or challenged in their authority can lead to rage as a way to reassert dominance.
Not getting their way: Narcissists believe they are entitled to special treatment and having their desires met. Being denied something they want, even small things, can trigger disproportionate anger and frustration.
Lack of attention or adoration: Narcissists crave constant admiration and validation to fuel their ego and maintain their inflated self-image. When they feel ignored or that the spotlight is on someone else, it can be a significant trigger.
Exposure or accountability: Being caught in a lie, facing the consequences of their actions, or having their manipulative behaviors exposed can be deeply humiliating for a narcissist and trigger rage as a defense mechanism.
In essence, anything that punctures a narcissist's carefully constructed facade of perfection and superiority can lead to a rage outburst as they desperately try to protect their fragile ego and regain a sense of control and dominance.
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