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SWBTATTReg

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37. I prefer the old and tried method of cooking a few of the main dishes, and then have everyone bring their special dishes

Reply to Miles Archer (Original post)

Mon Nov 24, 2025, 05:31 PM

23 hrs ago

they are famous for, or bring a dish. When you get all of us together bringing a mess of stuff, it's amazing and wonderful to see what everybody brings in. We do this every year at the local bar that all of us hang out at, every thanksgiving, for those of us that don't travel, that don't have family close by, etc. And it's wonderful!

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I think it's a good idea myself. Kingofalldems Yesterday #1

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Prices vary a lot throughout the country (n/t) Retrograde 19 hrs ago #42

Having lived all over the country, I am, unsurprisingly, well aware of that. niyad 18 hrs ago #43

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"Pass the hat for our gracious hosts and cooks!" bucolic_frolic Yesterday #3

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Cluelessly rude is putting it mildly. 3catwoman3 Yesterday #31

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yes, yes, yes.... markie Yesterday #35

That is a much more reasonable solution PatSeg 4 hrs ago #50

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AYFKM??? Invite my friends, or be invited, and then tell/be told, "fork over"??? niyad Yesterday #8

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An excellent idea. One year, friends and I went to a T-Day buffet. It was niyad Yesterday #26

Hubby and I aren't with family this year Tree Lady 17 hrs ago #44

Sounds absolutely lovely. Looking forward to pics! niyad 7 hrs ago #46

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Charging your guest is a shitty thing to do. Omnipresent Yesterday #14

Your words are true. chouchou Yesterday #19

If they are being charged, they are customers, not guests. niyad Yesterday #22

Exactly! Omnipresent Yesterday #30

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I prefer the old and tried method of cooking a few of the main dishes, and then have everyone bring their special dishes SWBTATTReg 23 hrs ago #37

How absolutely cool is that!!! niyad 23 hrs ago #39

I don't invite people over for events and then charge them. BlueTsunami2018 23 hrs ago #40

If you can't afford the meal Bettie 5 hrs ago #48

If push came to shove, I'd go the potluck route as well. Miles Archer 5 hrs ago #49

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