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Octafish

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Mon Oct 21, 2013, 05:17 PM Oct 2013

After JFK Conference, when I got home, I felt like RFK. [View all]

Heartbroken: I returned to Detroit to discover my best friend had died on the Wednesday I drove to Pittsburgh. It was a shock followed by a hammer blow -- the sudden, unexpected and complete loss of a most trusted friend who truly was my brother in work and in spirit.

My wife and friends did not want to tell me while I was there. Even my best friend's wife, whom I consider a sister, told my wife she wanted me to enjoy the once-in-a-lifetime experience. That's what my friend would have wanted, too.

A journalist, reporter and writer of the Old School, he was the one colleague with whom I most wanted to share what I learned at Duquesne. I got the tragic word upon my return home at 10:30 p.m. Saturday. When I saw my friend and her children at the service yesterday, Sunday, I cried. I'm still crying, typing these words.

The minute before I got the news, I felt like I was on top of the world. I had just returned from hearing many of the great people from whom I've learned over the past 50 years. Some of the younger authors and presenters knew about DU, a couple at least who said they'd learned and benefitted from DU. Regardless of names or percentages, we were there, learning and sharing information.

What I want to first report: DUers we aren't wasting our time following research, news, and analysis pertaining to the assassination of President Kennedy. In those three days, I learned more in many college courses I’ve taken on history or science. I couldn’t wait to share what I learned with my family and friends on DU and in life.

So, after being gone four days, I got home and greeted my family, whom I missed dearly. I sat down and took a bite to eat and asked why everyone was sad to see me. My wife told me my that we had lost a friend. His name was the first that came to mind, considering his job involved a lot of travel. My friend had passed away on Wednesday, perhaps while I was driving up to the conference.

No one knew what happened until his daughter came home from school and found him. He was a great man. Tops in every way. A family man. A patriot. A man of integrity. He was only 60. The blow will never leave my heart or anyone blessed to be part of his family, nor from the hearts and minds of those who knew him or crossed paths with him. He was that great a human being.

When I get my stuff together, I promise to share exactly the news and information from the JFK Assassination and what We the People can do to restore Justice in the JFK case. Of course it has to do with fair elections, stopping Wars without End for power and profit, and end Police State America. Hint: All it takes is You.

I will tell you why I felt like RFK upon my return from Pittsburgh: The loss of a brother leaves a void that cannot be filled.

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Sorry for the loss of your close friend. zappaman Oct 2013 #1
Peace and my sympathy. RagAss Oct 2013 #2
my sincere condolences steve2470 Oct 2013 #3
I'm so alsame Oct 2013 #4
My best friend and business partner died almost exactly a year ago. panader0 Oct 2013 #5
My best to you and his family. nm rhett o rick Oct 2013 #6
I am so sorry for your loss, Octafish! Cooley Hurd Oct 2013 #7
I'm so sorry, Octafish. Blue_In_AK Oct 2013 #8
I am so sorry you lost your friend. Take care of yourself. Luminous Animal Oct 2013 #9
Condolances Octafish G_j Oct 2013 #10
I am so sorry for your loss and the pain you are feeling rbrnmw Oct 2013 #11
My sincerest condolences my friend nadinbrzezinski Oct 2013 #12
Just. A. Hug. Ninga Oct 2013 #13
i am truly sorry, Octafish. nashville_brook Oct 2013 #14
I'm so, so sorry. deurbano Oct 2013 #15
Oh, Octafish, I am so very sorry to read of the loss of your friend. How bittersweet your last Mnemosyne Oct 2013 #16
Condolences leftstreet Oct 2013 #17
My sympathy on the loss of your good friend. --nt CrispyQ Oct 2013 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author Bolo Boffin Oct 2013 #19
What's wrong with you? boston bean Oct 2013 #21
I hit reply after only reading the title of the post. Bolo Boffin Oct 2013 #22
Please accept my sympathy. JDPriestly Oct 2013 #20
Sorry for your loss Octafish. Little Star Oct 2013 #23
My condolences, Octafish. A great friend is priceless. Peace to him & you & his family. DirkGently Oct 2013 #24
My heartfelt sympathies to you, and to your friend's family. scarletwoman Oct 2013 #25
I am sorry my friend, losing a loved one is very hard. Rex Oct 2013 #26
You're in my heart, Octafish. blm Oct 2013 #27
I am so, sorry. true good friends are a treasure riverbendviewgal Oct 2013 #28
Peace and Love to you Octa HangOnKids Oct 2013 #29
I am so sorry, my friend! I know what it is to lose a friend! LongTomH Oct 2013 #30
Condolences cantbeserious Oct 2013 #31
I'm so sorry. Autumn Oct 2013 #32
Heartfelt Condolences Octafish 2banon Oct 2013 #33
I'm so sorry Oilwellian Oct 2013 #34
very sorry for your loss JI7 Oct 2013 #35
(((((((Octafish)))))))... TeeYiYi Oct 2013 #36
I am so sorry, Octafish: PCIntern Oct 2013 #37
Gosh I feel your pain from here malaise Oct 2013 #38
Sorry for your loss, Octafish nt octoberlib Oct 2013 #39
My condolences 90-percent Oct 2013 #40
My condolences my friend Trailrider1951 Oct 2013 #49
Thank you 90-percent Oct 2013 #51
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife, 90-percent. ScreamingMeemie Oct 2013 #57
So sorry for your losses Jim progressoid Oct 2013 #61
That is a beautiful, poignant comment. I am so sorry about the loss of your sabrina 1 Oct 2013 #73
Sorry to hear of your friend's passing InkAddict Oct 2013 #41
We are so very sorry to hear about the loss of this dear friend. NYC_SKP Oct 2013 #42
Very sorry to hear of your friend's passing. I learned LibDemAlways Oct 2013 #43
I'd bet your family would had thought to do the same for him. Festivito Oct 2013 #44
(((((((Octafish))))))) WillyT Oct 2013 #45
My deepest sympathies. riderinthestorm Oct 2013 #46
Octafish, I am so sorry for your loss Trailrider1951 Oct 2013 #47
Shit!............ Hotler Oct 2013 #48
Very sorry for your loss. Karmadillo Oct 2013 #50
I'm so sorry for your loss. SalviaBlue Oct 2013 #52
... spanone Oct 2013 #53
Condolences and RIP gopiscrap Oct 2013 #54
It's so horrible to lose someone so close unexpectedly. My sincere Auntie Bush Oct 2013 #55
I am sorry, Octafish. ScreamingMeemie Oct 2013 #56
So sorry to read this sad news, Octafish Samantha Oct 2013 #58
Sorry, Octafish. Hang in there... villager Oct 2013 #59
I'm sorry about the loss of your friend, Octafish. pacalo Oct 2013 #60
I'm so sorry for your loss. cui bono Oct 2013 #62
Sorry for your loss. n/t mattclearing Oct 2013 #63
Such a painful homecoming. It was thoughtful of your loved ones Judi Lynn Oct 2013 #64
I lost my best friend years ago and it still hurts. My B Calm Oct 2013 #65
... progressoid Oct 2013 #66
Sorry man :( whatchamacallit Oct 2013 #67
So sorry for your loss, Octafish. AmBlue Oct 2013 #68
My deepest condolences to you and yours, Octafish. myrna minx Oct 2013 #69
Damn dude, seems to be a price for everything hootinholler Oct 2013 #70
Heartbreaking, indeed. My deepest sympathies to you, mountain grammy Oct 2013 #71
Sorry for your loss. Thanks for attending from those of us who couldn't attend. rwsanders Oct 2013 #72
Kick, Rec and hugs NRaleighLiberal Oct 2013 #74
My deepest condolences on the loss of your friend, Octafish. OnyxCollie Oct 2013 #75
Sorry for your loss, my friend.. Ghost in the Machine Oct 2013 #76
So Sorry to hear this... KoKo Oct 2013 #77
My sympathy on the loss of your friend and to everyone who knew and loved him livetohike Oct 2013 #78
So sorry to hear of the loss of your friend. woodsprite Oct 2013 #79
I'm sorry for your loss. Uncle Joe Oct 2013 #80
My deepest sympathy Octafish. CanSocDem Oct 2013 #81
my condolences, Octafish noiretextatique Oct 2013 #82
So sorry for your loss Octafish. nt raouldukelives Oct 2013 #83
In sympathy... bobthedrummer Oct 2013 #84
So sorry for your loss, Octafish... AzDar Oct 2013 #85
Hey, DU! Octafish Oct 2013 #86
I am so sorry to hear about your loss octafish. avaistheone1 Oct 2013 #87
I'm sorry for your loss, Octa. Mc Mike Nov 2013 #88
Condolences Octa ... ucrdem Jan 2014 #89
Thank you, ucrdem. Happy New Year to You and Yours! Octafish Jan 2014 #90
Seems like a really great guy. ucrdem Jan 2014 #91
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