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freshwest

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6. Some people buy into the feral argument, I think. That cats, especially, can live without people.

Fri May 29, 2015, 11:26 AM

May 2015

They think that they can live off of mice and stuff. It's also possible that they planned to come back and get the cats when situated.

This happened with a house I owned, it had been a rental and I ended up moving into it when they left because they hadn't paid rent to the landlord for almost a year. I had equity in it through my father's estate and moved into the place. It was a disaster area.

They left their dog there for over six months and all the neighbors and fed it. Then when they got settled, they came by and took the dog home with them. They never spoke to me about it, but in their mind, apparently it was still their dog even though they didn't take care of it.

Their lives were a total mess, a marital break up, kids freaked out, all sorts of stuff. They left all their trash, old clothes and the like all over the place and did an awful lot of damage to the property.

So I don't waste my time on being outraged, I just do what I can to protect what I can.

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What are people thinking when they abandon pets? [View all] Coventina May 2015 OP

Self centered abuse of the vulnerable. nt ladjf May 2015 #1

Sometimes they have to leave, and can't find a affordable place that takes pets. Lancero May 2015 #2

OK, I should have put more info in the OP: Coventina May 2015 #4

Objectifying pets nvardeh May 2015 #15

Welcome to DU GreatGazoo May 2015 #26

Animals don't have souls dumbcat May 2015 #48

There is no such thing as "settled" doctrine. alphafemale May 2015 #50

pfffffffffffffffffffffffft. Warren DeMontague May 2015 #60

No excuse for this, sorry. TDale313 May 2015 #16

The OP left out details to this, but my original point is still valid. Lancero May 2015 #36

I am talking about abandoning them to the streets TDale313 May 2015 #51

For the THIRD time in a row, if you bothered reading my post... Lancero May 2015 #52

I do get your point- TDale313 May 2015 #55

People who treat animals as kleenex are a waste of oxygen. Coventina May 2015 #56

I think you are misreading OP. gvstn May 2015 #58

I strongly suspect that my cat lost his first home this way. Gormy Cuss May 2015 #3

This is called "making YOUR problem someone ELSE'S problem". hamsterjill May 2015 #5

My husband and I noticed two cats last night. DawgHouse May 2015 #8

My thanks to you for putting out food and water for them. hamsterjill May 2015 #11

I am in the Orlando area. DawgHouse May 2015 #14

Some people buy into the feral argument, I think. That cats, especially, can live without people. freshwest May 2015 #6

Sometimes it's not the owners, but the "next-in-laws" LeftinOH May 2015 #7

In my case it was their loss and my gain. Wilms May 2015 #9

My youngest cat came to me this way IVoteDFL May 2015 #10

Thank you narnian60 May 2015 #31

Yep, people do this and it makes me mad too. DawgHouse May 2015 #12

Those are awful people. tammywammy May 2015 #13

Some people are so self-centered that they feel Snobblevitch May 2015 #17

Another excuse I hear for abandoning pets SheilaT May 2015 #18

I have posted before about our Dug Omaha Steve May 2015 #19

Awesome!!! Behind the Aegis May 2015 #30

Precious. narnian60 May 2015 #32

What gets me is when they get abandoned after a divorce.... Spitfire of ATJ May 2015 #20

selfish pigs. my former landlord had pets because renters move and leave pets in the unit Liberal_in_LA May 2015 #21

It's awful enough when they dump them outside, but Arugula Latte May 2015 #22

Not even sure if people who do that are capable of more than breathing. nt peecoolyour May 2015 #23

Another thing: Idiots who get rid of a pet when the woman becomes pregnant or they have a baby... Arugula Latte May 2015 #24

I knew a couple... a la izquierda May 2015 #46

I've never understood. Lunabell May 2015 #25

You're awesome. Glassunion May 2015 #45

In the 1990s, I got a rescued Great Pyrennes dog named Abigail Fortinbras Armstrong May 2015 #27

thank you for saying it so clearly.... mike_c May 2015 #28

I don't know JustAnotherGen May 2015 #29

They aren't thinking, which is the problem. Behind the Aegis May 2015 #33

Ignorant people who have never seen abandoned pets starving, or ignorant 1monster May 2015 #34

Some people amazingly think the pets will do better than being sent to the animal shelter. Cleita May 2015 #35

My sweet little dog was abandoned. mountain grammy May 2015 #37

Do NOT drive your pet "out in the country" , take the collar off, and abandon it... bvar22 May 2015 #38

My best friend from high school lives on a farm in SE Ohio Tanuki May 2015 #59

Or like the people that dump puppies over someones fence and drive off. Rex May 2015 #39

99% of the people who do this are slimy, pathetic excuses for human beings Lurks Often May 2015 #40

My evangelical right-wing neighbor left his tom cat when they moved to Florida. B Calm May 2015 #41

You're learning now most people are assholes? lookatme May 2015 #42

Let that number sink in for a while. lookatme May 2015 #43

I hope this makes you feel better. Glassunion May 2015 #44

well it makes me feel better CrawlingChaos May 2015 #53

LOL! Thanks for the much needed laugh!! Coventina May 2015 #54

As a manly man, of great intestinal fortitude, I can say... Glassunion May 2015 #57

I had some sketchy neighbors do this once when they were evicted. a la izquierda May 2015 #47

I agree that you should have to have a licence to have a pet Beringia May 2015 #49

I whole heartedly agree davidpdx May 2015 #61

Animals "show up" here all the time yourpicturehere May 2015 #62

I'd no more abandon my dobie than I would my kids. SwissTony May 2015 #63

I hate her too! lonestarnot May 2015 #64