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In reply to the discussion: Could we please stop with the "no woman wants to see a dick" - it's consent [View all]DonCoquixote
(13,616 posts)There are some people who do not even want a flirt, and then there are some who, in the privacy of a bedroom or certain establishments with a lot of "leather" decor, will willingly do things that make "50 shades of Grey" look pale, but both are okay, as long as there is CONSENT!!!
Consent is to be given every time there is anything romantic, and yes, it can be pulled at anytime. No Hollywood bigshot, it does not matter if your lover did things all last week that would make Porn look like Mickey Mouse, the partner can always say "NO", and the partner does not have to explain.
I use "partner" to be gender Neutral, because while this is mostly het men going after het girls, it is not always such. Rob schenider, aka that guy from "deuce Bigelow", came out very early and described how a male bigshot tried to force HIM to have sex. If we make this about Louis Cks gentials, we will miss the fact that Rape, which is what sexual harassment is, is about POWER. Could there be a time when a not het male bigshot harasses a male or female, yes, andwe will need to condemn that too.