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jaxexpat

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23. Points taken, however, it's necessary to see just how the informality......
Sun Nov 27, 2022, 09:15 AM
Nov 2022

of good manners was, in general society, formalized in practice. Often, what we see as simply good manners, socially graceful means to interact, was enforced by violence. I give you: whippings behind the coal house, tarring and feathering, banishment, run out of town on a rail, the ever popular "duel", etc. Fear of enforcement was enough to discourage most "honorable" people away from trespass. Everyone had their own personal experiences to know with certainty what "raised right" meant.

The truth is that the founders could not imagine a world where good manners and respect for the forms of society and governance could be ignored and tossed aside without some form of popular, inescapable enforcement. Our "kinder and gentler" approach to a perfect society has let loose the hounds of depravity whose current iteration is Trumpism.

Nowadays we get shocked when a Repub does the right thing RussBLib Nov 2022 #1
It would be nice if that became the new norm. TigressDem Nov 2022 #14
Why did he decided to do this today? Did I miss something? KarenS Nov 2022 #2
Because no one pays attention to the news on Thanksgiving Eve? wackadoo wabbit Nov 2022 #5
Maybe timing for turnover begins now. TigressDem Nov 2022 #15
"The orange blob obstructed and did not transition Biden into office." jaxexpat Nov 2022 #21
When this country was started, people who could write also learned manners. TigressDem Nov 2022 #22
Points taken, however, it's necessary to see just how the informality...... jaxexpat Nov 2022 #23
I'm sorry. Are you saying that because we don't beat sense into our children, we got MAGA? TigressDem Nov 2022 #24
I was discussing the reasons why the transition of power wasn't formalized. jaxexpat Nov 2022 #25
OK Good. I was worried for a moment. TigressDem Nov 2022 #26
Well that's hilarious David__77 Nov 2022 #3
Be careful yankee87 Nov 2022 #4
We are one GOP governor away from a coup Temeret Nov 2022 #6
Welcome to DU! Delphinus Nov 2022 #11
Welcome to DU, Temeret! calimary Nov 2022 #12
How professional. JohnnyRingo Nov 2022 #7
Does Lake think she will walk into YoshidaYui Nov 2022 #8
Just glad to see Ducey go bye bye! BumRushDaShow Nov 2022 #9
Yeah, Lake makes Douchey look good not fooled Nov 2022 #17
That's actually pretty scary BumRushDaShow Nov 2022 #18
Lake will stamp her feet and yell a lot but louis-t Nov 2022 #10
I'd expect her to cozy up to the donald. calimary Nov 2022 #13
A few republicans still have some class republianmushroom Nov 2022 #16
Wow! That's the way it should be. Cha Nov 2022 #19
"Kari you stop that damn tantrum right now!!" lambchopp59 Nov 2022 #20
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