How Confidence Became a Cult

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1. It's as bad as everything else women have been told

we should do; don’t be too (anything), get married, have a child, etc. Bottom line, you are free to do what you want as long as you don’t make anyone uncomfortable. So much this “Each of these messages reframes features of our unequal society as individual problems; according to confidence culture, we need to change women, not the world.”