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KY_EnviroGuy

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9. Use it like a medication taken when needed, not as a constant activity.
Thu Jul 24, 2025, 06:03 PM
Jul 2025

Although some in Zen and other practices claim it can be a constant thing, most of us normies rely on mindfulness as a reset mechanism when needed. The key is to develop our own method that fits our personalities. When I feel my day is becoming overwhelming or depressing, I can do a mental reset to re-ground myself in reality, then get on with my day.

Soon after I started my addiction recovery program, I started traveling in the engineering field service biz in power plants, paper mills, etc. and often found myself mentally overloaded during big plant outages. I then learned a trick of going into a relatively quiet place such as a restroom alone and just doing a repetitive meditation to quieten the multiple committees in my brain. That simple activity got me through some very tough spots.

One technique along that line is to discover a brief "mantra" that is peaceful to the individual, then repeat that line over and over until you feel relaxation coming in. For example, one of mine is "Peace on Earth, good will to all". You can also print longer ones and post them around your home to read when needed, such as this one I borrowed from a meditation book:

"May I be filled with loving kindness.
May I be well.
May I be peaceful and at ease.
May I be happy."

Good luck in finding your own way!

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yes NJCher Jul 2025 #1
O-tay - let's see if I can remember, but thanks anyway! UTUSN Jul 2025 #2
Lol NJCher Jul 2025 #3
Practicing Mindfulness should help and that also may relieve stress. KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2025 #4
I've been trying something a little similar - zeroing in attention when putting things down UTUSN Jul 2025 #5
Use it like a medication taken when needed, not as a constant activity. KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2025 #9
Thanks. Been using thank-you as a mantra randomly for things/events/tasks, waking up UTUSN Jul 2025 #10
Thank you! KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2025 #11
''A new study showed higher dietary sodium was associated with a higher risk of memory deterioration ... Donkees Jul 2025 #6
So, bananas are 'good' again? OldBaldy1701E Jul 2025 #13
It's more about keeping electrolytes in balance when there is high sodium intake Donkees Jul 2025 #14
Yes. I was making a joke about how one minute something is bad, and the next moment it is 'safe'. OldBaldy1701E Jul 2025 #16
One thing I've done recently, and it has to do with finding my cell phone, is to only have one spot in each room where Abolishinist Jul 2025 #7
Yip, have been trying extra focus putting things down UTUSN Jul 2025 #8
I adjust. OldBaldy1701E Jul 2025 #12
Thanks! - hah, Taurus, Pisces here with common ground situation! UTUSN Jul 2025 #15
I apologize for being 'blunt'. OldBaldy1701E Jul 2025 #17
Well, I *was* an English (Lit) major! - And, to coin a cliche (hah), you're as sharp as a tack!1 UTUSN Jul 2025 #19
its been a age old question and you are not alone here . AllaN01Bear Jul 2025 #18
Thanks for the "not alone' - that *is* a good thing, no? UTUSN Jul 2025 #20
i dont know . AllaN01Bear Jul 2025 #21
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