"rape and PIV* are almost the same thing", Part II. Welcome to Bizarro World.

[Warren DeMontague]

32. "Twisty"'s rant, there, is a real piece of work.

At the end, basically, she asserts that any time a man and woman have sex, if the woman comes first, and the sex does not IMMEDIATELY then-and-there stop, if the woman decides she "wants"* to continue the sex until the man, also, orgasms- that is a man "using a woman as a toilet".

Of course, we are also told that men don't give a shit about womens' pleasure, we're programmed by the Patriarchy not to give a shit about womens' pleasure, which is why we always finish first and roll off our long-suffering partner and promptly fart and go to sleep.

...so, don't be finishing first, guys. (Which always seemed like basic doooodely courtesy, but what do I, in my mansplaining doodely dood male gaze phallopressive heteronormative paradigm, know?)

But don't be finishing second, either.

And, according to Sheila Jeffreys, even if you both manage to go off at the exact same time, which is a nice trick but pretty difficult to pull off every time, aint it? --- the woman is still collaborating with the patriarchy and 'eroticizing her own oppression'.


[font size=1]* she can't, really, as per IBTP[/font]