To BE or To Be Looked At? Women: You are capable of much more than being looked at.

[seabeyond]

22. my thoughts are.... what the fuck is this kid being taught.

because i am telling you, raising boys and having little boys around me for 16 yrs, something is up with that. all the little boys i have been around, there have been ONLY two that has done this.

only recently have i started putting on a bra when kids come over. they are older. they notice. i have big boobs. no big deal in this house, in tshirt without bra. but with guests, i get dressed. all the years, no kids noticed, paid attention, nothing.

two boys. at young ages. i have always been uncomfortable with and made sure i dressed when they came over.

one, at about nine was googlin boobs. got grounded. he was also a kid from divorced home. the X was the manly man and always teaching his boys what a man was. i was weary letting my boys hang with the kids when they were with this man. one afternoon, he takes the 10 and 12 yr olds to hooters, to check out the tits. and be sure not to tell the mom, his X. hm, and this is the kid that felt uncomfortable.

the ONLY other kid is my nephew. he was raised in a home of a unconnected, non emotional, alcoholic mother. and an over the top, insecure, alcoholic father that was incredibly controlling of his wife and very jealous. i went into his house for dinner once and he had a porn calendar with a naked woman with legs spread on his kitchen wall. 2, 4 yr old boys and 7 yr old girl. when i chewed his ass out, he told me, just the beauty of the female body.

it was all about using it as a weapon to control and shame his wife.

they divorced, go figure.

14 yrs and alone he still moans the loss of her.

he had stripper, 25 yrs younger than him as his GF raising preteen, teen boys. took them to boob bars.

hm, wonder why the boys are so fucked up. fuck, wonder why the oldest daughter is, too.

so, from personal experience when i see boys behave in a manner that is NOT natural, i say, what the fuck is going on in the home.