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Lulu KC

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44. You are self-aware--a blessing and a curse right now
Mon Apr 13, 2020, 11:50 AM
Apr 2020

There is a book, The Upward Spiral by Alex Korb.

He is a neuroscientist, and writes scientific fact in a readable format. It is simple, one step at a time, but not Pollyannaish at all. Your darkness is real, but so is the light that is not that far away if we can get ourselves pointed towards it. (I'm going to get my copy off the shelf right now! Thanks for helping me realize that I'm getting closer to the edge--as are zillions of other people in the world.)

I have shared it with several friends over the years who have found themselves in that pit of hopelessness and despair. If you are aware enough to know that you are there, or falling fast, you can start the climb out. Just one step at a time.

You are not alone! Even people who have distanced themselves from "mental health issues" are facing new shadows, and it's a lousy time to have weight issues! Everyone's overeating--and everyone's lying around--as if it's a party. If these are things that have made your life a living hell, it's no party.

You are not alone.

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Suicide hit the mind today [View all] vercetti2021 Apr 2020 OP
One moment at a time Rorey Apr 2020 #1
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It would be a much worse burden if you... 3catwoman3 Apr 2020 #46
Being home alone, I look for things to do to feel useful to someone; things that don't require . Amaryllis Apr 2020 #47
I am glad you're reaching out to us. CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2020 #3
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California Peggy is right. You DO matter. Rorey Apr 2020 #4
You did? vercetti2021 Apr 2020 #23
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I use procrastination to ward it off, what do I gotta get done so my family wont have to deal with StTimofEdenRoc Apr 2020 #6
Just doing stuff? vercetti2021 Apr 2020 #32
Hang in there. Love yourself and who you are. A good time for introspection but don't let it lead lunasun Apr 2020 #7
Thank you vercetti2021 Apr 2020 #33
Let it pass on through your mind then, vercetti2021. ZZenith Apr 2020 #8
Trying to vercetti2021 Apr 2020 #34
It's time for some serious self-care. Dem2theMax Apr 2020 #9
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When these thoughts hit you, reach out! Marie Marie Apr 2020 #10
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Can you call your therapist? You said up thread it was tele-medicine. cayugafalls Apr 2020 #38
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You are self-aware--a blessing and a curse right now Lulu KC Apr 2020 #44
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