This is going to be a very rough day

[Siwsan]

5. Unfortunately he has turned into his father.

A man who despised me as much as I did him. He took great joy in humiliating me in public. And now his son has started to do the same thing, which has left me beyond stunned. It's made worse by the fact his dad abandoned him and his sisters when he was about 5, had an affair with and married his sister in law, dumped her and then he rarely saw him until he married my sister. Why he has started to emulate this guy has left me truly baffled.

He never really let himself grieve my sister's death. Even his kids have said this. He let this female erase my sister from the house. When we scattered her ashes, I chose her favorite garden where she had little angel figurines. He never bothered to tell me he was going to dig that garden up and build a garage on top of it. So, in my mind, my sister's ashes were dug up and dumped somewhere. Her pictures were stuck in a storage closet KNOWN for having mice and many of them were chewed up beyond repair. My niece managed to rescue what was left.

I'm sorry - I have so much rage and grief built up inside, I should probably call my therapist and move my appointment to sooner but I'm seeing him in 2 weeks so I'll just get through today, somehow.