I had an odd experience today. My father died the end of September. My cousin called today to see how I am feeling. I

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4. I couldn't disagree with you more

Divulging a secret as toxic and tragic as sexual abuse - especially perpetrated by a relative - is an important step toward healing. Her cousin reached out to her because she needed to talk about the pain and trauma they shared as children. The shame that survivors feel is poisonous, and can affect one’s entire life. Talking about their experience with a fellow survivor can serve to lessen that shame.