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slightlv

(7,229 posts)
14. I used to love cooking Thanksgiving dinner...
Sun Nov 23, 2025, 05:12 PM
Nov 23

besides being good eating, the chaos from everyone in the house was fun for once. It also was a chance to reach back and connect with my ancestors through the dishes that had been served generation after generation. As I turn 70 now, I don't have the strength or the stamina to do it these days. Plus, there's no huge family anymore. Makes a big difference. I did some price shopping last week and decided there's no way to buy the foods we need to prepare a trad dinner, and for once, ordering from the store to have it catered for two made economical sense. Plus, very little cooking on my part (some dishes I want for that ancestral connection, and I'll cook those myself... but they're cheap).

Still, I miss the chaos and magic of Thanksgiving when I was a kid. My dad would get up early in the morning to get the turkey started, and I was official helper with the dressing. We always at at my grandma's house... in the same little city, but clear on the other side from us. Dad prepared most of the dinner, so getting it from our house to grandma's was a real trip and a half. By the time the food got safely on boarded, there wasn't much room for us three kids! And each of us was responsible for the safety of certain dishes... and cleaning up the car afterwards! (LOL)

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When I was growing up, my father had a little photo studio in Dover Walleye Nov 23 #1
as far as I can tell Phentex Nov 23 #7
OMG!!! I. LOOOOOOOVE fried oysters. Trueblue Texan Nov 26 #29
Yes, you got that right, the small ones are much better and fry up a lot better. My mom was from the Eastern shore, Walleye Nov 26 #30
I love doing it, but I always feel like I've run a marathon when it's done. Scrivener7 Nov 23 #2
Friday is a holy day Phentex Nov 23 #8
Absolutely, let the next generation cook, and then to come to enough Nov 23 #3
I think they are looking for tradition Phentex Nov 23 #9
I usually order bamagal62 Nov 23 #4
It's one of two days I wish I had two ovens Phentex Nov 23 #10
I used to have a warming drawer! bamagal62 Nov 23 #15
My strategy: no_hypocrisy Nov 23 #5
That's a plan! Phentex Nov 23 #11
Pretty much my plan spinbaby Nov 25 #21
My stepdaughter has taken over most of our holidays now, mwmisses4289 Nov 23 #6
I'd love it Phentex Nov 23 #12
This place has a catered dinner Warpy Nov 23 #13
I used to love cooking Thanksgiving dinner... slightlv Nov 23 #14
Sweet sweet memories! Phentex Nov 24 #17
Our family traditions have me cooking for the full week before Thanksgiving... Trueblue Texan Nov 23 #16
I'll take the bubbly but I want turkey for days! Phentex Nov 24 #18
leftovers and my picky need to have MY pumpkin pie Kali Nov 24 #19
Well, and even though we're not having turkey... Trueblue Texan Nov 24 #20
Taking it to your grave? Phentex Nov 25 #23
Our Family's Cornbread Dressing Trueblue Texan Nov 25 #24
I looked up sausage-chestnut stuffing, which I would make along with Mom. usonian Nov 25 #28
Thanks! Phentex Nov 28 #32
That's fair! Phentex Nov 25 #22
and speaking of leftovers... Kali Nov 25 #25
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Phentex Nov 28 #31
We love it Cirsium Nov 25 #26
I have cooked Thanksgiving dinner for most of my 60 years of marriage. And im sick of it. Srkdqltr Nov 25 #27
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