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moniss

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6. I agree about having a vet look at her
Tue Nov 7, 2023, 06:25 PM
Nov 2023

because if she beat her face badly trying to get free she may have broken bones etc. and be in great pain which could answer her not eating etc. If the vet says she is OK then I have two suggestions to consider. One would be if you have any very little kittens available and if you feel it would be safe you could put one in her cage and see if she responds in a friendly way. That might get her coming out of her trauma a little. Another thing to try might be for you to move her cage to a small room that is quiet and away from hearing other cats. After a couple of hours, if you think she wouldn't lash out, you could try having a human go into the room with a blanket to lay down on curled up after they open the cage door. Just lay there quietly and don't talk. She will see or smell that something is different and she may come out to look or investigate. Remain still and quiet. She's been horribly traumatized and noise and unfamiliar movement is terrifying to her. Be as nonthreatening in manner and appearance as possible. Consider it a victory if after an hour or so she comes out to "sniff" this being in her area.

Assuming she isn't in terrible physical pain then most of what remains to be done is to help her break through her trauma and just the long term presence of the scent, warmth and stillness of this "being" in her proximity may be non-threatening enough to bring her to want to check it out. If she does come out and check out the cuddled up person just remain still for as long as she wants to check it out. A movement of a hand etc. may send her running back to cover terrified all over again. If she goes back slowly after checking the person out then the person can slowly and quietly move away.You might have to repeat this for a few days. Keep noise to a minimum around her. She doesn't understand what all of this is happening around her and she knows she was in great danger, had a horrible struggle and she is now in shock in a sense.

Good luck.

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