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In reply to the discussion: Pooper is gone [View all]hlthe2b
(111,937 posts)4. Non-pet owners have a very hard time imagining how intense the pain, but few of us here do not...
         Best thing I can think of to get through this period with that very empty hole in your heart is to focus on your good memories and get outside (if weather allows) to walk or at least experience some sun and nature.  Long walks in areas where there are no people-- also lets you vent, cry, and laugh when a happier memory comes through.  Very supportive, cathartic, and ultimately healing if only over considerable time.
   Best thing I can think of to get through this period with that very empty hole in your heart is to focus on your good memories and get outside (if weather allows) to walk or at least experience some sun and nature.  Long walks in areas where there are no people-- also lets you vent, cry, and laugh when a happier memory comes through.  Very supportive, cathartic, and ultimately healing if only over considerable time. 
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        Non-pet owners have a very hard time imagining how intense the pain, but few of us here do not...
        hlthe2b
        Jan 2024
        #4
      
        
        Not much that one can say, when you lose such a beloved companion.  I lost my doggie after 17 years, and I'm still
        SWBTATTReg
        Jan 2024
        #58
      
        
        i realised that pets shorter lives mean you can have more + 'spares' are a great thing.
        pansypoo53219
        Feb 2024
        #67
      
  