Bereavement

sheshe2

(83,654 posts) Sat Jan 22, 2022, 08:30 PM Jan 2022

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My mom passed away Thursday evening. [View all]

For the most part it was peaceful. We were with her all day and the moment she died. We were there.

There is a hole in my heart. Four years of home care and she slipped away. Not easy at all, physically or mentally however I don't regret the time we spent together, I am glad for it. I miss her and feel so lost. Past two nights I did not sleep with a baby monitor in the bed or my phone in my hand, it feels strange.

I am not a religious person, she was. The Angel is for her.

Goodnight, mom. I love you and I miss you.

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My mom passed away Thursday evening. [View all] sheshe2 Jan 2022 OP

Oh sheshe2, I am so sorry to hear this. greatauntoftriplets Jan 2022 #1

Dear sheshe2, madaboutharry Jan 2022 #2

I'm so very sorry. revmclaren Jan 2022 #3

Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved mom, my dear sheshe2. CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2022 #4

Oh, sheshe!!! I wish I was there to put an arm around you. I know you have Scrivener7 Jan 2022 #5

Beautful Tribute to remember Cha Jan 2022 #6

Thank you, Cha. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #12

Our deepest condolences. Rest in peace MerryHolidays Jan 2022 #7

((((( she she)))))) FalloutShelter Jan 2022 #8

Condolences, sheshe2 PJMcK Jan 2022 #9

Me too, PJMcK. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #22

We know we can't keep them forever, but the pain... Frustratedlady Jan 2022 #10

Of course, there are no words I could say that would take away the pain I know you Atticus Jan 2022 #11

so Sorry for your loss Groundhawg Jan 2022 #13

What you did for her was more than I could do for my parents. AndyS Jan 2022 #14

I'm so sorry, sheshe2. Solly Mack Jan 2022 #15

My condolences snowybirdie Jan 2022 #16

I'm sorry, sheshe. brer cat Jan 2022 #17

Love you, brer and your kind words. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #37

Sheshe2, my deepest condolences to you. Nt spooky3 Jan 2022 #18

My deepest condolences. My mom died 30 years ago she was only 70. Walleye Jan 2022 #19

Mind if I give you a huge hug? sheshe2 Jan 2022 #38

Thanks. I've been severely lacking in hugs lately. Walleye Jan 2022 #50

You can have as many as you want from me. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #52

I'm very sorry for mzmolly Jan 2022 #20

I am saddened to hear of your loss mercuryblues Jan 2022 #21

That is beautiful, thank you. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #188

My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Jan 2022 #23

Sincere condolences to you and your family. babylonsister Jan 2022 #24

I am so sorry for your deep loss Dr. Shepper Jan 2022 #25

So sorry, sweetie. ❤ littlemissmartypants Jan 2022 #26

I'm very sorry. LisaM Jan 2022 #27

My condolences, sheshe2 nuxvomica Jan 2022 #28

So very sorry Sheshe applegrove Jan 2022 #29

My deepest sympathies to you & your family, she. dixiechiken1 Jan 2022 #30

Love to you and yours. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #189

Deepest Sympathy. NNadir Jan 2022 #31

So sorry for your loss kimbutgar Jan 2022 #32

Oh, my dear sheshe UpInArms Jan 2022 #33

I have no words adequate to give you consolation. Having been a care-giver for my own alwaysinasnit Jan 2022 #34

I am very sorry. Please accept my sincere condolences. onecaliberal Jan 2022 #35

May her memory Mme. Defarge Jan 2022 #36

I'm so very sorry. luvs2sing Jan 2022 #39

You're lucky that you were with her when it happened. BigmanPigman Jan 2022 #40

I am so sorry swimboy Jan 2022 #41

Heartfelt sympathy to you sheshe . Your post brought tears to my eyes. The love and tenderness skylucy Jan 2022 #42

I am sorry, sheshe. tblue37 Jan 2022 #43

Been there. I pray the void you feel will soon be filled with wonderful memories Raven123 Jan 2022 #44

May you all have some peace. Your love for your mom was very clear. Condolences. BoomaofBandM Jan 2022 #45

((my she)) blm Jan 2022 #46

Losing the presence of a parent is a special sorrow... TygrBright Jan 2022 #47

Beautiful. Simply beautiful. dixiechiken1 Jan 2022 #63

What a beautiful post, Bright. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #107

I am so sorry. CottonBear Jan 2022 #48

(((((((((((((she))))))))))))) I am so very sorry for the loss of your mom. niyad Jan 2022 #49

Love you. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #58

Take care... bluboid Jan 2022 #51

I lost my mother last March bluecollar2 Jan 2022 #53

So sorry for your loss. woodsprite Jan 2022 #54

I'm so very sorry cate94 Jan 2022 #55

I'm sorry for your loss Sheshe2 Bluethroughu Jan 2022 #56

I'm so very sorry for your loss. StarryNite Jan 2022 #57

Deepest condolences, sheshe2 Glorfindel Jan 2022 #59

I'm so sorry sheshe BumRushDaShow Jan 2022 #60

It is the time spent and the memories. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #62

Deepest sympathy orangecrush Jan 2022 #61

Love to you, sheshe Budi Jan 2022 #64

Love you back, Budi. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #65

My condolences sheshe. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2022 #66

I hear you and Patrick. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #74

Deepest Condolences SheltieLover Jan 2022 #67

I'm sorry for your loss. it's tough to lose your mom. essaynnc Jan 2022 #68

Sending peace and strength to you, sheshe ((((and loving hugs)))) n/t slumcamper Jan 2022 #69

Oh, I am so very sorry. May the strength of her faith carry you through. LoisB Jan 2022 #70

I want to wrap you in love and peace. MLAA Jan 2022 #71

Much love and solace to you, dear sheshe2. calimary Jan 2022 #72

This is the DU I love. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #81

She's lucky she had you. Joinfortmill Jan 2022 #73

She told me she was ready. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #75

She's with you. Joinfortmill Jan 2022 #133

She'll always be with you, I know mine is Pas-de-Calais Jan 2022 #76

Deepest sympathy malaise Jan 2022 #77

TY sheshe2 Jan 2022 #90

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Deepest condolensces to you. It's never easy losing a parent, but take heart in knowing all your Evolve Dammit Jan 2022 #79

Oh sheshe2, I am so sorry. AllyCat Jan 2022 #80

Condolences, sheshe gademocrat7 Jan 2022 #82

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. The Polack MSgt Jan 2022 #83

TY, MSgt. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #86

I am so sorry. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2022 #84

I'm so sorry. My mother away two years ago. Dial H For Hero Jan 2022 #85

Oh, SheShe-- evolves Jan 2022 #87

I am so sorry for you. bronxiteforever Jan 2022 #88

I am very sorry Danmel Jan 2022 #89

Sincerest condolences MsLeopard Jan 2022 #91

Oh, honey. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #92

Oh sheshe2, I am so sorry the loss of your mother Wicked Blue Jan 2022 #93

Sorry to hear bucolic_frolic Jan 2022 #94

I'm very sorry for your loss. I have no doubt the love she felt for you, in the bullwinkle428 Jan 2022 #95

So sorry stage left Jan 2022 #96

I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢 live love laugh Jan 2022 #97

Sheshe, I believe you shared recently here cilla4progress Jan 2022 #98

Such a kind thing to say, cilla. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #103

... cilla4progress Jan 2022 #150

So sorry. paleotn Jan 2022 #99

I'm so sorry, sheshe2. It's such a painful loss, especially after so many highplainsdem Jan 2022 #100

Wow. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #127

So sad to hear Deuxcents Jan 2022 #101

Sending my condolences to you sheshe2 Tumbulu Jan 2022 #102

my condolances to u . AllaN01Bear Jan 2022 #104

I'm so sorry to hear this, sheshe2 ailsagirl Jan 2022 #105

I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Jan 2022 #106

I'm sorry your lost your Mom FakeNoose Jan 2022 #108

I feel your pain... William Gustafson Jan 2022 #109

William. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #119

thank you William Gustafson Jan 2022 #122

So sorry for your loss sheshe2. May your mom Rest in Peace iluvtennis Jan 2022 #110

I'm so sorry dflprincess Jan 2022 #111

I'm so sorry for your loss sdfernando Jan 2022 #112

((((sheshe2)))!! 2naSalit Jan 2022 #113

I'm so sorry for your loss wendyb-NC Jan 2022 #114

So sorry for your loss... jaysunb Jan 2022 #115

Oh my gosh. I am so sorry for your loss. MontanaMama Jan 2022 #116

I love you , MM. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #121

My deepest sympathies, sheshe2 Backseat Driver Jan 2022 #117

Sincere condolences SilasSouleII Jan 2022 #118

I am so sorry, this is so hard. TNNurse Jan 2022 #120

Oh sheshe2 Me. Jan 2022 #123

Blessed Be Her Memory Eternal. sprinkleeninow Jan 2022 #124

I'm sorry that had to happen. Rizen Jan 2022 #125

Try to take care of you as well. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #130

I am so sorry sheshe. Maraya1969 Jan 2022 #126

Sorry for your loss, hang in there n/t hibbing Jan 2022 #128

I am so so sorry for your great loss sheshe irisblue Jan 2022 #129

Thank you Iris sheshe2 Jan 2022 #132

Oh, sheshe my dear one, I am so sorry for your loss Hekate Jan 2022 #131

Blessings for you... pazzyanne Jan 2022 #134

Your heart has always seemed so large and empathetic here to fellow DUers... FailureToCommunicate Jan 2022 #135

What a kind post, FTC. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #136

... FailureToCommunicate Jan 2022 #140

Keep your phone next to your pillow. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #147

My father was a minister, and my mom a social worker and "wife of a minister" so I know THEY... FailureToCommunicate Jan 2022 #174

Condolences, sheshe2 catrose Jan 2022 #137

Thank you, catrose. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #139

... mcar Jan 2022 #138

I'm so sorry, sheshe Bayard Jan 2022 #141

I'm so sorry to hear this, she! Nixie Jan 2022 #142

So sorry for your loss minstrel76 Jan 2022 #143

I am so sorry KT2000 Jan 2022 #144

I am so sorry, sheshe. crickets Jan 2022 #145

She was very fortunate to have you care for her grantcart Jan 2022 #146

I'm sorry for your loss vercetti2021 Jan 2022 #148

Comforting hugs, She radical noodle Jan 2022 #149

Oh my dear sheshe. William769 Jan 2022 #151

Bill, my dear friend. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #191

I'm very sorry for your loss..nt helpisontheway Jan 2022 #152

My heart goes out to you... JudyM Jan 2022 #153

I am so sorry. I know this pain well. Silver Gaia Jan 2022 #154

I am so sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2022 #155

Sheshe, I am sorry. murielm99 Jan 2022 #156

Sheshe2..so sorry ..Moms are special and she will always be with you...my mom passed asiliveandbreathe Jan 2022 #157

I'm so very sad for you She. lamp_shade Jan 2022 #158

Oh, my friend, I am so terribly sorry. Rhiannon12866 Jan 2022 #159

I'm sorry, she. I hope you can find some peace, and get some rest now. SunSeeker Jan 2022 #160

I am so sorry. AmBlue Jan 2022 #161

So sorry samplegirl Jan 2022 #162

My deepest sympathies BlueMTexpat Jan 2022 #163

Condolences sheshe2 sarge43 Jan 2022 #164

I'm sorry for your loss. Nt raccoon Jan 2022 #165

So very sorry for your loss, sheshe... Trueblue Texan Jan 2022 #166

So sorry for the loss of your mom Meowmee Jan 2022 #167

My deepest condolences, sheshe2! You are a wonderful person for being there for your mom for those LaMouffette Jan 2022 #168

I'm so sorry, sheshe. yardwork Jan 2022 #169

How comforting to know that you were there for your mom to the end. Lonestarblue Jan 2022 #170

My heartfelt sympathy Siwsan Jan 2022 #171

Oh Sheshe2, so sad for your loss. lark Jan 2022 #172

I am so sorry for your loss, sheshe2 CousinIT Jan 2022 #173

I'm so sorry for your loss, sheshe2. mia Jan 2022 #175

I'm so sorry for you loss, sheshe2. Yorkie Mom Jan 2022 #176

So so sorry for your loss sheshe2 Peacetrain Jan 2022 #177

What an amazing gift you gave her, caring for her and having her pass with loved ones. 58Sunliner Jan 2022 #178

I'm sorry for your loss. KS Toronado Jan 2022 #179

So sorry for your loss. Glad she passed peacefully with her family surrounding her with love. Fla Dem Jan 2022 #180

I'm so sorry for your loss, sheshe2. SalmonChantedEvening Jan 2022 #181

I'm sorry. May she rest in peace and be surrounded by the perpetual light of PatrickforB Jan 2022 #182

I am so sad for you pandr32 Jan 2022 #183

You have my condolences. cstanleytech Jan 2022 #184

....... marmar Jan 2022 #185

That's horrible. I'm so sorry to hear that. TheBlackAdder Jan 2022 #186

My condolences to you and your family on a difficult loss. Moostache Jan 2022 #187

RIP sheshe2's mom. This takes me back to yrs ago, my dad. uppityperson Jan 2022 #190

Hugs, dear she. 2 Meow Momma Jan 2022 #192

Sorry for your loss. We lost my mom Dec 31st. it really stinks oldsoftie Jan 2022 #193

I am so sorry for your loss, oldsoftie. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #194

Hugs to you and all the family lunatica Jan 2022 #195

I'm sorry Lifelong Protester Jan 2022 #196

condolences with sorrowful llashram Jan 2022 #197

Thank you, llashram. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #198

So sorry for your loss, She tishaLA Jan 2022 #199

I still cant get over MFM008 Jan 2022 #200

So sorry for your loss wryter2000 Jan 2022 #201

I'm very sorry for your loss dlk Jan 2022 #202

So Sorry Sheshe Oldtimeralso Jan 2022 #203

It is never easy, My sympathies. DFW Jan 2022 #204

Still thinking of you this night Hekate Feb 2022 #205

I love you...Thank you. sheshe2 Feb 2022 #206