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ismnotwasm

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28. Yes
Mon Mar 23, 2015, 02:19 PM
Mar 2015

I think when we have children, or have enough exposure and influence to children male or female, it's easier if we are able to be invested somehow in their education, their goal and dreams. This doesn't happen with everyone of course. Watching young women up hesitate to reach for the stars and wonder if it's because she is a she, is a very good thing to do. Just as watching a boy pick a profession out of a misplaced sense of masculinity would be distubing to the aware parent, or responsible adult. I think you gave her the best advise possible.

Interestingly, since I work at a teaching hospital, before my eyes, not only have I seen the number of female resident increase, I know medical schools are at 50/50, but also the number of female attendings, fellows, surgeons and tenured professors in medicine. What tends to happen it the gender gap becomes wider the more power the position entails. This continues to be a significant problem, what is encouraging is the increasing awareness it is a problem--literally--for society. There are studies coming out showing a equilatarian workplace is a healthier, more productive one when it comes to gender.

(I know I enjoy the general diversity at my workplace, it adds richness to the culture and greater understanding of points of view. For instance, I can listen to female Jewish persons originally from Israel discuss politics with a male Mulsim originally from Pakistan, and the world doesn't end)

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One man represents all men? guillaumeb Mar 2015 #1
This is not about relationship 'issues' exactly ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #2
I was responding only to the information in the link guillaumeb Mar 2015 #3
Yep. False equivalency Gaslighting. salib Mar 2015 #4
how do I distinguish between what I think I see guillaumeb Mar 2015 #5
Why? ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #6
No doubt that sexism exists in my mind guillaumeb Mar 2015 #8
But they can start a decent conversation ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #15
"I personally don't do feminism 101, " AH HAAhAAaahaahahahaaaha seabeyond Mar 2015 #17
Heh. ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #23
if your point was to start a conversation I agree with it. guillaumeb Mar 2015 #19
it is a thing that men do. (that is general, not ALL). it is a thing women allow. (that is general, seabeyond Mar 2015 #20
yes to all three guillaumeb Mar 2015 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #21
Let's take a look at one article ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #22
excellent point guillaumeb Mar 2015 #25
Yes ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #28
+1... nt seabeyond Mar 2015 #29
You mean that based on what someone else says, you might doubt what you see and you conclusions? salib Mar 2015 #7
Not what I said guillaumeb Mar 2015 #9
It is what you said. salib Mar 2015 #10
interesting framing of my position guillaumeb Mar 2015 #13
nobody gives a shit about your "all" argument. what part of that are YOU not getting seabeyond Mar 2015 #18
seabeyond, he must really think he is clever salib Mar 2015 #31
i swear to god, the best of men have such a challenge seeing the wrongs. a challenge seabeyond Mar 2015 #32
"how do I distinguish between what I think I see" maybe LISTEN to women tell you our seabeyond Mar 2015 #12
I am willing to do so, guillaumeb Mar 2015 #14
then do the damn research instead of continuing your damn dismissal. seabeyond Mar 2015 #16
This sounds familiar. The discussion of the OP is over now. n/t freshwest Mar 2015 #11
And just how many women had to accuse Cosby before the story got any traction? Warpy Mar 2015 #26
There are still men who think that the *dozens* of women who have accused Cosby are lying YoungDemCA Mar 2015 #35
the bro is just having the first of many, many... mike_c Mar 2015 #27
guess what, dude. this woman does not trust men. at all. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2015 #30
I'm back on topic and here to say JustAnotherGen Mar 2015 #33
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2015 #34
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