LostInAnomie
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:47 PM
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Why are my gay friends OBSESSED with boobs? |
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I'm as big of a boob fan as the next guy but my gay friends are OBSESSED. When I am sitting in the commons at my college they are always making comments of the racks of the women that walk by in a lewd and suggestive manner.
When we are at parties they are always grabbing the girls boobs, and they let them get by with it (I guess because they don't think they are getting anything out of it). Not only that but then they rub it in my face that they were "all over those tits".
If they are gay (and they are) why do they love the fun bags so much? Whats the deal?
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:48 PM
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1. They're just latent hets. |
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Being gay is a phase, don'tcha know!
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:49 PM
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.. perhaps they're just trying to 'rub it in your face' a bit?
at least they're just kidding... right? <right?> :bounce:
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:49 PM
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3. Man, I gotta try that trick! |
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:50 PM
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4. yup, I have several friends with that same thing... |
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Kind of weird if you ask me, but I guess it's just for fun :P
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:50 PM
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5. Sounds a tad hostile to me. |
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Also a lot paternalistic.
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:51 PM
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6. Boobs are one of natures enduring mysteries. |
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They entice, they seduce, they endear. They turn the minds of all men into jelly. With simple jiggle they can make grown men weep. Oh the power of the Boob is truly phenomenal.
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:54 PM
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and for all this time I was unaware of my innate POWER!! :nuke:
:bounce:
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:00 PM
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Edited on Fri Mar-04-05 10:00 PM by geomon666
Which is why men have not been reduced to a slave state yet.
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:51 PM
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7. Maybe they're jealous they don't have the boobs! |
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Just a thought. I am gay but I am not obsessed with boobs. Some are nice to look at.
I know a lot of gay guys who are also obsessed with the boobies.
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:55 PM
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9. We werent breast fed.....we have issues. |
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:57 PM
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10. Gay men are always obessessed with my boobs. |
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Now, I admit, they are very nice, however. I find it kind of amusing though. I go out to gay clubs and flamer boys will come up to me and ask to touch them.
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Fri Mar-04-05 11:16 PM
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A recent pic will be helpful in validating your claim...:evilgrin:
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:58 PM
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11. Um, are they lesbians? |
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I had to ask just to clarify!
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:02 PM
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We're just messin around! Don't feel threatend, trust me, my thoughts are elsewhere!!
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:11 PM
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Fri Mar-04-05 09:59 PM
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:00 PM
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15. That's what the kids are calling them. |
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Edited on Fri Mar-04-05 10:01 PM by LostInAnomie
I just wanted to be hip.
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Fri Mar-04-05 11:15 PM
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Fri Mar-04-05 11:07 PM
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32. that rather struck me, as well |
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:00 PM
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My gay friends just loved my cleavage in my wedding dress. LOL. Talked about it all night at the reception.
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:06 PM
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Hey it's worth a shot.:P :silly:
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:10 PM
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No, the only cleavage I would like to share is with my husband. He is a happy man. But it was worth a shot. :)
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:01 PM
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16. I am a hetero, but some of my lesbian friends speak rather fondly |
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of males with good "endowment"...I guess we are all just human and appreciate fine things! LOL
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:04 PM
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18. I'm CONSTANTLY admiring my friend's... |
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"chestal area" as I call it...and I'm pretty gay...her chestal area is just so big! She should be proud of it though. :D
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:09 PM
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20. I think there are a lot of things going on here |
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1. jealousy/envy 2. kind of an undercover woman bashing, because they know that women know they aren't serious and therefore allow them "intimacies". 3. a one-upsmanship to hetero males: "Look what I can do that you can't." 4. We all (gay or hetero) came from women. These women breast fed or they didn't. Doesn't matter. The child maintains an image of the woman's breast--forbidden (if they didn't breast feed) or accessible/desirable if they did.
I think number four is the predominant factor. Could be wrong.
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:18 PM
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23. I don't think gay men are envious of women's breasts |
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Do you imply they wish they had them? And truly, most gay men I know are staunch defenders of women and would not be inclined to bash them. Just my 2 cents!
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:45 PM
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28. I repeat: there are a lot of things going on here |
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I don't think there is any one answer. I think some of each of what I have mentioned is true.
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:46 PM
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29. Well maybe a lot of things are going on |
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but not because they are gay.
Maybe they are just juvenile?
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Fri Mar-04-05 11:18 PM
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35. Darn, did I forget to list juvenile? n/t |
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:19 PM
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24. i'm a hetero female and i can appreciate nice boobs. |
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or other ways a female looks good. i imagine it is the same with gay men. my closest gay friend tends to comment on my boobs a lot too - i don't mind him touching them because it is just like having another woman touch them.
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:21 PM
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I'm not gay, but I can act like it... up to a point.
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:33 PM
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:42 PM
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27. Maybe they think it's amusing |
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to parody stereotypical straight guy talk and behavior?
Why don't you ask them?
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Fri Mar-04-05 10:48 PM
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30. Why would I want to ask my close and personal friends... |
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... when I can ask complete and total strangers?
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Fri Mar-04-05 11:05 PM
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and, honestly, its not like we talk about boobs all the time. we might say, "look at her, she's hot" but thats the end of discussion :shrug:
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