My search for a humane dairy turned up mostly goat farms....which is A-OK cuz goat cheese is my VERY FAVE CHEESE OF ALL!
Anyhow...Coop American led me to this one, here in CA but they ship anywhere.
http://www.redwoodhill.com/about_us.htmThey say all the animals have names, that they are tended to in a traditional manner and are never given any of those chems or anything like that....they have petting zoos and tours of the facilities etc. It doesn't actually look like a bad gig for a goat!
Milk I could care about, soy milk is just fine. THERE IS NO SOY GOAT CHEESE THOUGH! Goat cheese, YUM!!