It's hard to be nice to someone who's dumping you.

[kimmerspixelated]

Their life isn't going to change that much. Yours will.


"You can take anything you want."

" I'm sorry I hurt You."

Blah,Blah, Blah, Blah Fucking Blah...


I'm in the bitter stage, had to vent.

[I Have A Dream]

So sorry, kimmers.

:(

:hug::hug::hug:

[FirstLight]

1. hang in there, hun

:hug: I know this is the sucky part, and there's lots of sucky parts... feel free to vent at will.

and know we are all holding Light for you to emerge into on the other side. you will be stronger, wiser and more centered -And my bet is that it will take a lot less time than you think since the universe is all lined up for shift...

:grouphug:

[kimmerspixelated]

2. You're such a doll!

I'm so glad you guys are here! Yeah, I was just reading Lauren Corgo, and she mentioned the shift, too and time warps..Ahhh...ease of pain..please hurry..Bless you-my friend(s).

[Howler]

3. Hug

:hug:

[MorningGlow]

4. ...

:hug: :hug: :hug:

[Ricochet21]

5. If their life isn't going to change that much

w/o you, that doesn't say much about how much they've been exchanging with you when you "were there." Does it?
Move on. It'l be ok, it'll be great, you're a great gal. :applause:

[kimmerspixelated]

9. What I meant was, that he doesn't have to find a job, etc.

I know, I know...I'm a little closer to really letting go today. I'm trying to keep front and center, the kind of life I want to create. It's scary though, to be on your own in this economy.

[japple]

6. We're here for you. Let it bleed freely. Don't hold anything

back. :hug:

[Mnemosyne]

7. ...

:grouphug::hug::grouphug:

[laylah]

8. ...

:hug:

[Melissa G]

10. Your life is going to change mightily for the better!

You're going to envision it that way and so are all of us who are holding you in the light. Now is the time for letting go of anything that is holding you back. Claim the change as your choice. You might as well. ;)

Vent all you want, love. I know it's painful. :hug: :grouphug:

That said, here are two Yogi Bhajan quotes a friend sent me today.

"Any word that you speak exists. It is there. It is a vibration. Word is
a cause and an effect. Nobody can escape from word. Realizing that we
can't escape word is our basic duty" YB


"If you just go with the flow of your spirit, your mind will just serve you,
and life will be creative, elevated, beautiful and authentic." Yogi
Bhajan

Edit to say it sucks to be the one who is left. When my kids were small, I noticed how they were feeling about me leaving the house first and I rearranged so they left first more. I noticed they felt more powerful with that shell game of five minutes. :hug:

Breaking up can be nasty. During my divorce, my ex said he would rather eat crushed glass than be with me. He'd probably be embarrassed by that now. At the time, his comment was more salt in the wounds and I felt like part of me was being amputated. After 25 years, I'm pretty amused by it and even at the time, it struck part of me as a bit over the top.

[kimmerspixelated]

11. Thanks, Melissa!

I'm so overwhelmed and I needed that!.. I just don't know what I'm going to do for money or housing.It's not like I have a good job.One that could support me. I'm not just depressed and angry, I'm over the top frightened.I feel like I'm being dumped in the ocean. I don't even have the luxury of just being resentful. My family from out of state will probably take me in, but I can't count on that. I'm hoping the universe opens up and I can get a job or finish creating the business I thought I'd have time to build. Whew! Thanks for letting me vent...

[Melissa G]

12. PM me about your business if you want. I know a bit about starting them

and keeping them going.
It's a scary time. No Question.
The universe will also support you if you are doing what you need to be doing. Also, no question.

Is your family in Texas?

[SCarrington Smith]

13. If you need extra venting space

feel free to e-mail me and vent away. Talking about it is going to make you feel better. :-)

:hug:

PS. Of course, I do realize you don't know me from Eve, but I do have some big ears...:)

[SCarrington Smith]

14. Then, of course, it would help if I leave my address...

...sorry...I clicked that darned button too fast. [e-mail]

:hug:

[kimmerspixelated]

15. Thank you sooo Much Sandra!

Everyone here is so incredibly nice...sometimes, I'm speechless! I'll definitely keep you in mind..and vice-versa, too.. it's wonderful to have e-buddies..and sharing probs can make them seem less burdensome. Bless you!:hug: :hug: