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Edited on Sun Oct-31-10 03:02 AM by bliss_eternal
...in some cases, yeah--it is (or can be) self-hatred. not in all(of course) but some....still too manyinstances(imo).
spend some time browsing some discussions between black women regarding hair, especially naturally textured, kinky, coily hair (afro) and it's bound to come out, and it can be quite blatant when it does. see any of the same discussion boards when it comes to zahara jolie-pitt's hair, madonna's african son's hair, thandie newton's daughter's hair...and ALL KINDS of ugly is exposed.
i wish i was making this up. :(
i see it when a woman w/locced hair is damn-near attacked by other (black women) w/"ooooooh chiiiile, when you gonna' get your hair done?!", while simultaneously frowning up their faces, and giving her "the look" (stink face)...as if natural/kinky hairstyles are a contagious disease, and they need everyone around them to do away w/them, or risk catching it, too. :eyes:
hell, one of my health practitioners (black woman) had some rather unpleasant things to say about the obama children when he was campaigning. as if the world was going to end because michelle didn't straighten their hair, some of the time,that summer.
how dare she actually allow them to be children. to NOT be perfectly coifed in the eyes of the world, and allow them to wear braids, cornrows, etc. and to look like, yes--they've been playing. :eyes: the issue is too deep for me--and not something i discuss w/any body. so i gave her the side-eye, and changed the subject.
kudos to sesame street. :thumbsup: they're doing a very good thing, imo.
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