Not quite the same but close in proximity. What stage is the cancer? Has it metastasized or is it prone to doing this? I was forced to have a total tyroidectomy and lost one of my parathyroids as well. I must take medication for the rest of my life but other than that I am completely recovered except that my metabolism has been forever changed for the worse, but given the alternative I can deal with that. I am going to go through my cancer links and I will post the better ones.
Edit: None of my sites dealt with throat cancer directly but I found a few sites that seem informative.
http://www.cancergroup.com/em27.htmlhttp://www.cancerhelp.org.uk/help/default.asp?page=5581http://www.throat-cancer-symptoms.com/http://www.entusa.com/voice_box_cancer.htmYour SO will probably at the very least have to go through radiation treatment. I have done that as well but I did not need chemo.