Good links!
While films like SNUFF 'entertain' male viewers, the military has offered hands-on expereince. Veterans Richard Hale reports that on the way to Vietnam troops were told, "There's a lot of loose ass over there men, and they just love GI dick. And best of all they are only Gooks, so if you get tired ofthem, you can cram a greanade up their cunt and 'waste' them " Many soldiers seized the opportunity; stories of wartime atrocities abound. "This is my rifle," the troops chant,"This is my gun," they slap their crotches;"One is for killin, the other's for fun." Four hundred thousand Bengali women were systematically raped by Pakistani soldiers; how many women have our boys raped? After all women have been bounty in every war. Misogyny and homophobia are basic components in military indocrination. "When you want to create a solidarity (sic) group of male killers," goes the Marine philosophy, "you kill 'the woman' in them."
http://www.spunk.org/texts/anarcfem/sp001097.txtIt is difficult to talk about “masculinity�? and “femininity�? without someone objecting that I’m blaming men. I’m not. I’m trying to, as all those “feminist studies agitprop�? people have done, to interrogate the categories of masculine and feminine and understand them in terms of power. But, I still hold, as I’ve written before, that there is something
primal in the fear of penetration, of being overpowered, of fellatio, even, that lends a physical element to all of this. I don’t know how to get around this problem. We know where the roots of homophobia lie; misogyny it seems to me, should be more accurately labeled gynophobia.
http://www.culturekitchen.com/lorraine/blog/education_and_the_fear_of_the_feminineBut what 19th and 20th century women were really peeved about was less the lack of a penis than the lack of all the privileges that went with the penis.
After hundreds of years of being told "I'm sorry dear, but you don't have a penis -- sit down, shut up, and spread your legs," the female gender got mighty uppity and began demanding the vote, equal pay, contraception, and finally even orgasms. So in a sense, Freud was right -- a lot of women really did want to cut the penis down to size. (Of course some more literally than others.)
http://www.rotten.com/library/sex/castration/Will women joyfully throw off the burqua? I doubt it. Women who are denigrated, made fun of, humiliated, harassed, and beaten year after year begin to believe the propaganda. Witness women in the U.S. who have been abused, verbally, sexually, and physically, stalked and killed. Fear can immobilize. Only in recent years have women in the U.S. been escaping violent environments – their own homes – to go to safe places. Organizations such as WEAVE give them and their children assistance. But no one, and no organization, tells men to clean up their act.
http://www.rthoughtsrfree.org/feminist.htm