Reply #50: Definitely not. [View All]

[kimchi]

If you have a child on the way, you will want to spend time getting to know it. They grow so incredibly fast that you really don't want to miss a minute of it. Trust me.

Think of your family first. Yes, you could go to Iraq without losing your soul; but in my opinion that is the job of the young and unencumbered idealist. Part of my soul has been in Mesopotamia since a third grade video which spawned my love of archaeology, culture, and religion. But the greatest portion is in her crib asleep right down the hall.

Best of luck with your decision and may your family be blessed.
Inahna ;)