Reply #72: You'd be AMAZED at the number of men who [View All]

[Maru Kitteh]

keep their past, including children hidden for as long as possible. One lady in a shop I worked at 6 or 7 years ago had been dating a guy for over a year when she found out she was preggers. They were already engaged so they just bumped up the date. Sent out the invitations, got the dress, had the hall booked and food & festivities paid for when he decided it was time to let her in on his "past life". Bastard had a son in another state he apparently didn't see, didn't call, didn't have photos of around the house............... I couldn't believe it when she married the snake anyway. I got the feeling it was because she didn't want to be embarrassed and everything was already booked and paid. Sometimes people really do just ask for trouble. I would have either aborted and kicked him to the curb or had the baby and kicked him to the curb. I quit shortly after the wedding, she never seemed like a happy person after she found out what he was, a stinking slimy liar.

As for child support, unless you've had a vasectomy that you are SURE has not failed you damn well better pay it and I don't give a DAMN if you have 12 kids by 15 different women you never married. PAY.