Reply #18: I'm torn... [View All]

[redqueen]

While I agree that until men can carry the baby themselves, then mother nature has pretty much decided this issue for them, I also see that it's unfair that though they can't decide whether or not the baby is born, that they still have to pay for it.

I think that goddess40 said it best -- they can choose to not risk the whole kit and kaboodle, and if they do, then the die is cast and they have to face the consequences whatever they may be.