Reply #44: Well said Nicole... [View All]

[Jen72]

Men! If your girlfriend does not wish to bring your child in the world,it maybe becausue you are still selfish, totally inconsiderate, have a roving eye,drink to much, put Football before her needs, are tight with money, lack commitment, is an unrepentent mommy's boy or any other reason.
And if your girlfriend decides to have your child, that you have no interest in, then allow her furfill a dream of becoming a mother.
Paying for the child, is an investment, for when you decide your child is interesting.It will give your parents a chance to be the grandparents they may love to be too. And it will help that child believe that even if you are mostly abscent by choice, they you are not a complete asshole!!!

By the way, when giving birth, the woman has to endure pain unlike anything else for sometime more than twenty four hours, they have the most private parts exposed for who ever wishes to see. Some women puke, pee and shit themselves from the strain of pushing.
Then if it seems the head is too big, she has to endure being cut open without a full general anisthetic. She will have scaring, will not be able to hold her baby straight away as she would a virginal birth. She will suffer with terrible anxieties, between the birthing room and theatre too.
If a woman goes through all that without the support of a loving partner, they deserve kindness, respect and an acknowledgement of shared responsibilty.
If child support is a serious worry, men always find ways to not paid.