Reply #75: She does live with the consequents..... [View All]

[Jen72]

She is a Mom. She She is buys clothes, checks homework,deals with nightmares,tears went her child has a fight with their best friends. She has the consequence of shouldering the total responsibility of making her child, a healthy,well-adjusted,kind person.
She maybe having to console her child, when it thinks that his new son is more important.
Does the father of this woman's child, face any consequences for the pain her has caused? No he does exactly want he pleases.

I watched a documentry about families. A father felt "hemmed in," by his responsibilities and left so he could race cars, drink beer and have his own space. The result was that his two-year old son, stopped eatting, constantly woke up at night, was clingy.
By your reasoning, it was his wife's choice, she had sex risking pregnancy, choose to give birth to her son, therefore when a man
leaves and BREAKS A TWO YEAR OLDS HEART, it is not his responsibilty.

BTW: Your choice, you invited him - is a common defence for rape, you really need to grow up, it you like that an acceptable argument.