Reply #9: I sometimes think that I too would go back and change things [View All]

[Lindsey]

but then I probably wouldn't be where I am now (spiritually, emotionally, etc.) and I like who I am. I think that these experiences either make us bitter or make us grow into more evolved spirits. Fortunately, I feel that I've grown a lot. If I were to erase the relationship that I was most devastated by, I wouldn't have near the compassion, understanding, or appreciation that I have now. At least now I can honestly say that I KNOW what I want in a partner and I KNOW what I don't want in a partner. To me, that means I've learned some important lessons and that I will find my life partner based on my past experiences. I tell you what though, the relationship that most recently ended (one year ago) ended over something that I think could have been resolved. We still really loved each other and I think back at some mistakes I made and often cry when I think....if only I hadn't....or if only I had.... I don't think I'll ever forget her and I would never want to.