Reply #113: There aren't many strong independent women? [View All]

[Beaverhausen]

Are you serious?

And if you think about it, for some people just being single makes you feel insecure. I definitely feel better about myself BECAUSE I am in such a good relationship.

This may sound weird and all new agey but you have to really believe that the person you want is out there and you have to put out positive energy to the world to attract her. I used to have this list of traits I was looking for in a man and every night before bed I would repeat this to myself:
I am now attracting a man who is sensitive, smart, funny...etc."
And he did come along.