Reply #4: I'm not going to get all old-know-it-all on here.... [View All]

[dean_dem]

because I'm only 24, but dude...you're 19. 19 is not the time to be thinking about "long-term" relationships. Hey, 24 isn't time either.

Ambivalence about getting hitched at 19 is probably pretty healthy. Try living your life instead of worrying about having to find someone. Enjoy doing what you want to do, whether its getting through school, pursuing your interests, or just getting your own life straight. This is the time you're supposed to be enjoying your own life, not giving it to someone else. Really, its not like you're fourty years old and living in your mothers basement, in which casen you might have cause to be desperate. But at 19 you're just giving yourself an unnecessary headache worrying about that kind of thing.

But that's just my opinion.